Ask Dan & Jennifer

So, I've been out with this girl about three times in the last two and a half weeks or so, and I've definitely enjoyed spending time with her. What I'd really like is to take it one step further, kind of make it clear that I'm really interested in her and see if she'll have me. I'm not really sure what to do though. I don't want to just come out and say "hey I really dig you, what's your verdict on me?" Saying something like that strikes me as being very similar to giving an ultimatum, and I doubt that would be helpful at all. So, I'm looking for a way to figure out the answer to that question, and maybe get things a little more serious without throwing it in her face. Your help is greatly appreciated.

- Chris