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Hi all. My situation is this: My girlfriend and I began fooling around a couple of weeks ago. By this i mean, we give each other handjobs during make-out sessions etc. Last time, i also went down on her. She enjoys all of it a lot, but i cant tell if she's had an orgasm yet. We are both virgins and we've never done any of this stuff before. Thus, im concerned that she wouldnt even be able to tell me if she's had an orgasm because she doesnt know what it feels like! There have been times when her legs tighten up, she moans and says my name while im fingering her or even rubbing her breasts. She tells me that I'm doing a really good job and she wants more. I've read some stuff on giving orgasms to women and have done my best to apply this knowledge. Its just that (if she is having them) she isnt making them as obvious as the women in porn. I have asked her if she has had an orgasm, and she says she doesn't know (tho, again, she does enjoy it all and shows signs of having an orgasm-like experience).
Some other things to consider:
She's very religious, and although she admits to masturbating in the past, she felt "dirty" and i doubt that she does it very much anymore, if at all.
She also says that she's holding back on the screaming and is afraid that she is already too loud. Her fear stems from the fact that my parents are upstairs and she doesn't want them to hear.
She also does not want to wet my couch.
She can be shy and self-conscious of her body, though i try to make her feel confident through genuine compliments.
We're both 18.
So:
1. Will she know FOR SURE if she's had an orgasm?
2. Will she definitely squirt or ejaculate if she's had one?
3. Could it be that my expecting her to have an orgasm may be premature, given that this is her first experience of a sexual nature?
4. Lastly (and please dont answer this question without answering the others) should i be so concerned about giving her an orgasm given that she is already having a good time and things are still pretty early on?
Some other things to consider:
She's very religious, and although she admits to masturbating in the past, she felt "dirty" and i doubt that she does it very much anymore, if at all.
She also says that she's holding back on the screaming and is afraid that she is already too loud. Her fear stems from the fact that my parents are upstairs and she doesn't want them to hear.
She also does not want to wet my couch.
She can be shy and self-conscious of her body, though i try to make her feel confident through genuine compliments.
We're both 18.
So:
1. Will she know FOR SURE if she's had an orgasm?
2. Will she definitely squirt or ejaculate if she's had one?
3. Could it be that my expecting her to have an orgasm may be premature, given that this is her first experience of a sexual nature?
4. Lastly (and please dont answer this question without answering the others) should i be so concerned about giving her an orgasm given that she is already having a good time and things are still pretty early on?
