How do i start a conversation.

in Singles and Dating » Flirting, Seduction, and Pick Up Lines • 3 years ago

k so there is this really cute girl in my german class. ive been wanting to talk to her for the longest time now but im a shy kind of guy when it come to meeting new people. i tryed to look for her myspace to add her so we could talk online first and then i would feel more comfortable talking to her at school but she dosent have a myspace. so how do i man up and talk to her and what should i say to this girl cause ive never talked to her before and i know nothing about her ?

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jayarikis..

Re: How do i start a conversation.

3 years ago

Dude even I have the same problem. Even I want to talk to a person but I am very shy and scared to talk to girls cause I dont know what they will think of me, or will they make fun of me or will they think iam a big looser. Even you might think same thing about me cause I am typing all these things. 1st thing I need to know is how to approach a girl. I am having troble with that cause I am not good looking. And second important thing is if she has a boy friend allready. I faced these probllems in my high school, and still facing that problem with another girl in my class. Once she sat next to my in the bus while going for a tour, but that time I was realy tensed. I wanted to speak to her, but I dont know what to do. Then my friend besides me asked something & I was talking with him. I realy lost the chance. I dont know what to do. Somtimes I think its just waist of time going behind girls, while you can enjoy your time with friends. I even think this 'love' thing is not going to be forever, when we finish our studies and go somewhere else she won't feel the same and might even get a new or better boy friend. So I think better is to be a bachelor than to be broken harted or something like that.

jaga_is_n..

Re: How do i start a conversation.

3 years ago

Some thing I did was very stupid was calling a girl ''some'' bad names,but about a week later,she called me a ''bad'' name and I said sorry and now we are friends = )

jjdubbie

well there is a solution...

3 years ago

i understand how hard this can be especially when you feel you don't want to make a mistake or do something foolish and that's the thing, fear is overriding your confidence.
and i know you don't want to do anything that will give her the wrong impression of you. and i understand that you don't want to scare her away either.
the fact that you're adding her myspace and talking to her, is just like stalking her on facebook and adding her. these online communication chat thingys are mainly for the sole purpose of interacting with friends. friends that you've already established.
if you're just trying to get to know her, it's easy, go up to her and say hi like any normal human being would. and her being in your german class just makes it that much easier. saying something in deutch or just say "hey, can you help me prounounce this word" would already help you "break the ice" and you'll feel alot more comfortable.

of course, this is just MY opinion
hope this helps
-Jjdubbie:)