Ask Dan & Jennifer

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the best way is stright out, and right away. That way you two have the most time to talk about options.

Good luck

Please do this RIGHT AWAY. If he is very much older this could be considered statutory rape and carries severe consequences. Please please act quickly. Then find a Planned Parenthood office for counseling. You'll probably have to find an adult confident who can drive - unless your BF has a license. You need advice from someone close and familiar with the legal situation in your state.

Wow so sorry. how bout discussing this with mom ive found they mostly always have the best answers.
the sooner the better to. these things dont simply go away.
please dont consider simply not seeing him again either cuz its not right hes has a right to know.
if its difficult to talk with your mom how about talking to a guidance person r teacher from school? keep in mind if hes like much older he will get seriously into legal trouble.
be prepared they will definitely ask you who the farther is. believe me tho its all bout you and your baby tho, not him.
i so feel for you let us know how it goes
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willow

Wow, big stuff for such a young person. There must be some reason it is so hard for you to talk to your parents. Is there anyone else in your family you trust? You need to find someone, quickly to talk to about this.

There is no easy way to tell someone you are pregnant if this is not welcome news. You just have to come out and tell him and deal with his reaction. Obviously you are not sure how he will react or this would be easy for you.
If he cares about you, that's what will be important to him. If he doesn't then it's best you find out now anyway.

Keep in mind this will be hard for your boyfriend, too. He will be scared and unsure about what is going to happen, too. He may even face charges of some sort if he is enough older than you (that varies state to state).

I'm concerned about you, having unprotected sex at such a young age. I hope you will get some counseling to help you get through all of this. Tell someone older in your family that you can trust, or at the very least a teacher or a school counselor so that you have an adult help you sort this out. Give your boyfriend a chance to step up and be straight with your family if he can. Then the two of you tell your parents if you don't think it will be a dangerous scene. Only you know what your family is like. But you obviously- can't keep it a secret forever.

I would suggest telling your parents. Although they will probably be mad at first reaction, they will love you over your boyfriend and more likely be supportive in any deciscion YOU make. Just beware, that BF may try to influence a decision you may not want to do. So, I would find someone to talk to, that isn't your boyfriend first... then tell your boyfriend. At least in that capacity, you can get your thoughts together on how you feel, how you want to go about this situation, and tell him in a fashion that he will not try to influence your decision.