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I'm at the same position. The feeling is so hurtful. What I think is please don't quote me. Some guys can't say "I'm leaving the relationship" they don't wan't to be the bad person. The only way out is to make us feel mesirable until we end the relationship. That's how I feel.

My guy told me he would not leave me. I guess he will continue to have flings behind my back until I find out and get up enough guts to leave him. I realize a guy can lie so easily. Or I guess anyone that cheats. I guess you can tell he is still into you if he does not flat out leaves you.:(

tomorrow is the day we talk bout this whole thing, i hope we worrk this out cuz i really love him

Good luck, I hope you can get him to open up. I tried setting a time to talk to him too, but I can't get anything out of him. Just get straight to the point without screaming at thim or raising your voice. Its' hard not to do that.

mi guy and i broke up but the good part about it is that we still are friends and we still talk, i guess its really not breaking up, do u think he just need space and dint know how to tell me?

Originally posted by: October
My guy told me he would not leave me. I guess he will continue to have flings behind my back until I find out and get up enough guts to leave him. I realize a guy can lie so easily. Or I guess anyone that cheats. I guess you can tell he is still into you if he does not flat out leaves you.:(

For me, he's keeping me so he have someome to fall onto. I know he's not all into me. If he is he shouldn't cheated on me. I feel like just a security deposit.

Well he really doesn't care for you if he cheats. That goes for me also. He should be man enough to say that we are not enough and he want to go out and be with others. I would have rather he had done that instead of going behind my back. Come to find out this was not the first time. I don't know... we have been together for a long time. I just want my proof that he is still doing something even though he has an idea that I think something is going on. If he is I think that is the last staw for me. He has alot a things going on now and if like he said "he has to much going on to be messing with another woman." It better be true but I think he is doing something and time will tell.

Is your realationship the same thing over and over agian? Do you make love the same way over and over? Maybe you guys are just bored. Do something different, go to a new resturant. Do something crazy. Have fun life is short. If the realationship is the same in a month, then you'll know.

Well I found out that he is doing something. Text message saying when can i see u. And another text saying to a different person when can i see your cake. So what does that sound like to you? Do you think i am reading something into the situation or does it sound like something is going on?