Ask Dan & Jennifer

My husband was having an emotional affair with a co-worker, that ended up becoming our nanny. She's gone from our home; however, is still at his office part time. We had camera's installed for him to see her actions with our kids. He finally saw what I didn't like and my reasons for getting rid of her (besides the fact of them talking and flirting and who knows what else). Well, when I first asked him to stop talking to her he couldn't understand why he couldn't be just friends with her. Since then, I am guessing that he's given up on that ... all he's said is that he just wants her gone also. For some reason I can't seem to let it all go ... I still feel like he communicates with her one way or another. He swears up and down he's not talking to her at all. But how can I be for sure ... or how can I get over this feeling that I have?

Thanks for any advice.