how do you fix a bad kisser?

in Love and Relationships » Love and Romance • 2 years ago

HELP!

I'm dating a guy who i really like and he has lots of awesome qualities and has taken me out on alot of dates. I think we could really be potential boyfriend/girlfriend material for each other, but theres a problem...he is a HORRIBLE kisser!! very sloppy, and by the end of it, my face is COVERED in his spit! ...how can i teach him how to be a good kisser without telling him or hurting his feelings?

Replies(6)

stephen_d..

kissing

2 years ago

Sounds like you need to to sit him down and just talk with him let him know what you want. Not to use his tongue like a paint brush. You are going to have to teach him and show what you are needing and wanting from him. Remember most men do not know, they only learn from women willing to teach and show us how to do things in the fashion of life.

Communicate

blueshear..

Re: how do you fix a bad kisser?

2 years ago

thanks for the advice stephen! however, we arent together...is it still ok to do that even though he is not my boyfriend? and what if it hurts his feelings?

stephen_d..

Kisser

2 years ago

This should not hurt his feeling. If anything he should glad someone told him what he needs to know. Sure there might be alittle injury, but he will get over it. That is something i would not worry about. Best thing is to let whom ever you are with what you are feeling. No matter what it is they must know. I know it may seem hard at times, but they will thankyou you in the end.

Xero

Re: how do you fix a bad kisser?

2 years ago

Originally posted by: stephen
This should not hurt his feeling. If anything he should glad someone told him what he needs to know. Sure there might be alittle injury, but he will get over it. That is something i would not worry about. Best thing is to let whom ever you are with what you are feeling. No matter what it is they must know. I know it may seem hard at times, but they will thankyou you in the end.

Completely agree, and you could actually sit there and practice it with him. :cool:

nova_danj..

Re: how do you fix a bad kisser?

2 years ago

I wish I knew a lady friend who would be willing to teach me things like this. He should be more than happy that he actually has somebody who wants him to be better at this.