how do you tell your GF you want the fist???

in Sex and Intimacy » Sex Tips and Advice • 3 years ago

Just for starters I'm 27/m in a long relationship and on the rare occasion that my gf wants to get a little freaky i enjoy anal sex.( me being the catcher, shes not really into even trying which is whole other topic) and while she will occasionally use a couple fingers (most ever was 4) i keep finding myself wanting more but don't know how to tell her with out freaking her out. i mean how do you say "baby shove your hand into my ass." so as you might tell have quite the delima. can someone please help

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wolfhowl_..

Re: how do you tell your GF you want the fist???

3 years ago

the best way is honest and openly. Maybe start a conversation about what she would like to try first, as a lead up to what you would like to try.

Good luck

loveinohio

Re: how do you tell your GF you want the fist???

3 years ago

Dont ask her this while your having sex. Tell her you know it may sound strange but it feels really good to you. She probably just doesnt want to put her hand into it, maybe buy some type of toy.

k. in cle..

Re: how do you tell your GF you want the fist???

3 years ago

All of the above answers are great. I'd like to add something I've done in the past. This works best if you two have watched or will watch a porno together. Find a video (magazines are ok, but not preferred) that has a guy getting fisted. Check out her reaction... if she's not horribly disgusted tell her that interests you. If she does seem very put off by it then you can decide if you want to explain to her that you think it'd feel good, or expose her to it more....

On the other hand.. if you find yourselves in a particularly hot love-making session, there's nothing wrong with saying "give me more baby, that feels so good!" or something on that order. Women do this, so why can't a man?

Both of these really depend on your relationship though. Just my suggestions :)