How good should I treat my girlfriend?

in Love and Relationships » Relationship Advice • 3 years ago

Hello persons of this forum,I'm in sort of a dilemma.
In all of my past relationships,the girl broke up with me because I was treating her too well.
Now,I may be the only one of my age to think this (Everyone else just seems to be focused on "scoring points") ,but I think that women should be nurtured and treated as best as can be (without it getting to a level of them using me,In which case I end it.)
And yet....
No.
Oftentimes,the relationship seems go very well,but then she randomly breaks up with me,claiming that she wants to be treated rough,something I am not easily capable of.

So,I'm wondering,should I try and find someone who appreciates being treated very well,or attempt to stop being so...Giving? Nice?
I cant find a good word,But I'm sure you know what I mean.

I myself would go with the former,But what do you think?

Replies(4)

michael_b..

how good should you treat your girl friend?

3 years ago

if you like a girl next time just relax around her talk to her like a friend for a few mounths, let her do all the opening up then when your happy open yourself up. alittle and by the time you do that she will feel more comfie around you,and then you can start bein yourself and it will be more your type of relationship. and when you feel like its going rong just sit her down and explain, who you are and tell her some stuff about you and your worries you never know she mite explain her feelings and thoughts back and thats a houge bonus. ps good luck.

fawkse

Re: How good should I treat my girlfriend?

3 years ago

have you thought about the quality of the women you have been dating? are you trying to settle for for someone whom's requirements don't quite match what you can give?
it sounds like to me that you are dating women that are not compatible with you. i think you should relax, and take your time finding a woman to settle down with.
there are plenty of woman whom crave meeting a man that will treat them like a royal princess.
often times though, most women don't exactly know what they had until thay gave it up too.
stay confident and true to yourself. i'm sure there is a woman out there waiting to meet up with you. it's not every day us ladies can find a man that has the qualities you have!
good luck

billy_g

Re: How good should I treat my girlfriend?

3 years ago

i agree with you. women should be treated like princesses, but u also don't wanna be like her "dog" always running around for her. i say if women are saying you're too nice to them and that they want to be treated rough then that's an issue with them...i'd wait it out because i'm sure u'll have no trouble finding a girl who appreciates everything you do for her if u give it some time.

good luck and i'm sure u'll find someone,

-Bill

jealous1

Re: How good should I treat my girlfriend?

3 years ago

I think it's ridiculous that a girl would break up with you for treating her TOO well. What's the deal with that?

Personally I would love that.

If a girl wants to be treated a little rougher, she needs to speak up. Although, most girls I know want to be swept off thier feet.

I agree, if it gets to a point where they use the other person, then end it! Fast. No one should be treated like that.

Kudos to you good sir!

I wish the best for you in your quest. :D