How to get a Fleshlight without parents knowing.

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How to get a Fleshlight without parents knowing.

in Sex and Intimacy » Sex Toys • 2 years ago

Hey all, I'm new here, so please play nice! ;)

I'm a 19 year old male who's has never had any luck what so ever. Sadly, the closest I've come to a relationship ended...painfully.

However, this has done nothing to curb my sex drive, which is only going up (no pun intended ;) ) Normal masturbation is ok, but lately, it's just not enough. So, I started looking at other options, and came upon the Fleshlight. I've heard many great things about it, and was looking at getting one.

My problem is that I still live with parents, and they are VERY puritan about sex (basically, sex=worse thing imaginable). Needless to say, this causes some...issues...

Anyway, I was hopeing you all could help me in my endever for a Fleshlight! I have a credit card, though i suspect parents can see purchases. Are there any tips on how to order one, get it delivered, and use it without them knowing? Any advice would be GREATLY appreciated.

Thank you!

P.S sorry for any grammar/spelling mistakes! first time on a forum...

Replies(6)

nova_danj..

Re: How to get a Fleshlight without parents knowing.

2 years ago

Tell them that you're an adult and that you're paying it with your own money. If they really think that sex is the "worst thing imaginable," then remind them that they are hypocrites for conceiving you.

scarbowl

Re: How to get a Fleshlight without parents knowing.

2 years ago

If you use the credit card they'll know you're up to something. You'll have to find an adult book store or sex shop that has these and buy with cash. Otherwise, you'll have to find a friend who will do it for you but it might be too awkward to ask.

The Fleshlight is a great device, though. If you get one, be sure and use enough lube - hand cream is easiest to clean up. You have to keep it clean and allow it to dry.

Even if you can get one without their knowing, how will you hide it from them? This all sounds rather difficult. But perhaps if someone finds it they will be too embarrassed to ask you!

Good luck! (And don't challenge your parents on this - it will only lead to more trouble).

arashi19

Thanks!

2 years ago

I deffinatly cannot tell them upfront. I probably should clarify, they are not against sex per se, just sex without procreation (sp?). So anything masturbation, casual, anal, you name it, it's forbbidon.

I actually do have a rather open friend I can ask who's helped me with a lot of things, any advice on (gently) asking? (a she, btw)

Also, hiding it is no problem. My room (thankfully) comes with plenty of hide-holes, if you know how to use them ;)

If they find it, though... well, let's just hope their love will overcome anything else... not holding my breath...

Anyway, thanks for the advice! If anyone has anything else to add, I'll take all the advice I can get!

mrtaco

Re: How to get a Fleshlight without parents knowing.

2 years ago

Im probably to late and you probably already figured it out and got one, but if you havent, use ebay with credit card. im 16 and i use ebay, have it shipped to your female friends house and dont let her or her parents open it

belvedere..

My dear Arashi,

2 years ago

Originally posted by: Arashi19
Hey all, I'm new here, so please play nice! ;)

I'm a 19 year old male who's has never had any luck what so ever. Sadly, the closest I've come to a relationship ended...painfully.

However, this has done nothing to curb my sex drive, which is only going up (no pun intended ;) ) Normal masturbation is ok, but lately, it's just not enough. So, I started looking at other options, and came upon the Fleshlight. I've heard many great things about it, and was looking at getting one.

My problem is that I still live with parents, and they are VERY puritan about sex (basically, sex=worse thing imaginable). Needless to say, this causes some...issues...

Anyway, I was hopeing you all could help me in my endever for a Fleshlight! I have a credit card, though i suspect parents can see purchases. Are there any tips on how to order one, get it delivered, and use it without them knowing? Any advice would be GREATLY appreciated.

Thank you!

P.S sorry for any grammar/spelling mistakes! first time on a forum...[/QUOTE
My dear Arashi ,
Your generation is fortunate enough to get answers from respected people like Mr.Dan&Mrs Jennifer . You will be relieved of lot of tension and inhibitions a lot in common at your age . It is easy to say concentrate on studies but difficult to follow as all of us have passed through same phase as you are in because of nature which is powerful .Some friends have answered your question. My advice is never keep stressed by not sharing with others and spoil your future . Regarding spellings etc also donot bother as long as you are daring to communicate freely . It is like learning swimming . We have to make a beginning ! Good luck !
belvedereful

delights_..

Re: How to get a Fleshlight without parents knowing.

2 years ago

Originally posted by: Arashi19
Hey all, I'm new here, so please play nice! ;)

I'm a 19 year old male who's has never had any luck what so ever. Sadly, the closest I've come to a relationship ended...painfully.

However, this has done nothing to curb my sex drive, which is only going up (no pun intended ;) ) Normal masturbation is ok, but lately, it's just not enough. So, I started looking at other options, and came upon the Fleshlight. I've heard many great things about it, and was looking at getting one. Just simply check with the site to make sure that the postage is discreet.

My problem is that I still live with parents, and they are VERY puritan about sex (basically, sex=worse thing imaginable). Needless to say, this causes some...issues...

Anyway, I was hopeing you all could help me in my endever for a Fleshlight! I have a credit card, though i suspect parents can see purchases. Are there any tips on how to order one, get it delivered, and use it without them knowing? Any advice would be GREATLY appreciated.

Thank you!

P.S sorry for any grammar/spelling mistakes! first time on a forum...

Greetings;

My partner and myself actually run an online adult store, and one thing i can put your mind at ease, most orders are sent from companies without and names mensioned, they dont tend to put on the box sex toys and most of the time they are plain boxes with your address and a return address without the company name.

If you are really worried about it, you can also get it shipped to a friends house or even the place where you work. (we actually get the last one a few times).

As for payment, most online sites here will actually use Paypal. All you simply do is transfer money from your bank account to paypal, then process the order with Paypal, the only way it will show up, if you log into paypal and look at the history, you will get the transfer from your account to paypal, but it wont show where the money went after that. Paypal is like an online bank account.