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Stop ? I dont know really what to say , you cant just stop him , he wants it and if you cant give him what he wants thats not a relashanship. Telling the truth I been in a same situation ( I am male ) so ofcouse I wanted sex from my girlfrend quite offen , but there isnt a problem for me.

If seriosly you want him to stop , talk to him maibe he's gana understand if not and if it is a really big thing that anoys you then leave him.

If he's smart he's gana change he's mind ^^

Wish ye luck :)

Originally posted by: 16tori16
My boyfriend and I have been together for a year. We were each-other's first. Ever since we did the first time, he just can't stop wanting to have sex. It's like his drug. How do I get him to break the addiction???

It is normal for men to want sex on a daily basis. Many want it several times a day. Unless his sex drive is interfering with his ability to work or study or interact with members of society at large there is no problem. He is probably just a healthy young man. Stay with him until he's in his seventies and you will notice a decrease in his sex drive.

Actually based on the limited information you give it saounds as if you are the one with the problem. There are men with lower sex drives. There are men who are asexual.

My question would be whether you are having your needs met in the relationship. He is "getting sex" but is he providing the emotional support and intimacy you want? Is he capable of wanting to do things with you OTHER THAN sex? In other words, is this dominating the relationship?

It is fairly normal for men to have a very active sex drive at that age. But you don't say how often you have sex with him. Twice a day or twice a week. It is difficult to tell what your acceptable level would be. Maybe provide some more details?

According to the Sexual Behavior in the Human Male report, 54 percent of men think about sex every day or several times a day, 43 percent a few times a week or a few times a month, and 4 percent less than once a month. Unfortunately your man fell in the first category :D. I honestly think that you can't stop him from that, so instead of trying to go against it, enjoy it! ;)

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then he'll get sick of it. Make him cum so many times that you drain his sex drive!

Originally posted by: FemaleOrgasm
then he'll get sick of it. Make him cum so many times that you drain his sex drive!

I like the sound of this :D

but my advice would of been, stop giving in so much, if sex is the only thing he wants from you he don't truly love you.

Originally posted by: Xlife
I like the sound of this :D

but my advice would of been, stop giving in so much, if sex is the only thing he wants from you he don't truly love you.

Good point!

Everyone else is, to all intents and purposes, saying 'just do what he wants, even if you don't want to' (except for xlife and scarbowl).
If you don't want to, don't. A relationship is give-and-take. Nothing is ideal in the real world. If he gets angry when you refuse, is he really who you want-someone who gets angry when you don't want to have sex. Is it lust or love?
Don't be afraid to not marry/spend your life with your first. It's in books, in shows, but rarely ever happens in real life.
If he doesn't love you, if he only loves your body, then say 'no'.

Is it not ironic that this post was two behind What do I do to make my husband want to have sex all the time, again?

Shakespeare: There is nothing good or bad but thinking makes it so.

Since you have so much advice saying just do what he want. Myself since i am a male. Tell him to masturbate. Hell he might enjoy having you watch him doing it. If he can't go with what you are wanting. Then you need to rethink your relationship with this other half. Sorry women have rights to. What does the women want. Not just the man side folks

First of all...your man is fairly normal, especially if you are young (which it would be easy to assume that you are since he is your first and vise versa). Men hit their sexual peak fairly early and love sex.

So, what do you do? First, talk with him. Tell him how you feel and what both of you can do to fix the problem. If it is a problem (which it seems to be) then you guys need to find common ground on the issue. Define how much sex is too much. Some couples think that all the time is three times a week...others have it a lot more then that. Second is the problem that he wants sex or that he doesn't want to do other things. Figure out exactly what bothers you and why and talk it over with him. If you don't he won't know that there is anything wrong. I am a huge supporter of talking.