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its not you... its just something that he has to get used to... i had the same problem.... if you keep going long enough he will cum... and he will love you lol

The corona is the rim of the head of the penis. It is the most sensitive spot of the penis. Suck on it continuously. Don't waste your time with the shaft.

Originally posted by: FemaleOrgasm
The corona is the rim of the head of the penis. It is the most sensitive spot of the penis. Suck on it continuously. Don't waste your time with the shaft.

thats the thing, I do, he still isn't comming....
i tried sucking nd biting gently, just sucking, everything... :(

If he can, get him to jerk off. Maybe watch some porn with him. When he's about to cum, finish him off in your mouth. Do this about 10 times over 10 days. This will train his penis to cum in your mouth. Then give him a blowjob without him jerking off to porn.

lol thats another thing with him, hand jobs dont do nething for him either and he doesnt like jerking off either, he likes the real thing...

Im sorry if I seem to make things harder but it is a complicated problem that Im faceing...

I'd suggest using your mouth and hand at the same time. Most men rub along their shaft when they masturbate - it is worth the effort. You rub him and lick/suck the head at the same time.

If he can masturbate to orgasm then he should be able to cum through your efforts.

I can imagine it is frustrating. I, too, have some difficulty achieving orgasm when my partner goes down on me. But eventually it does work.

Keep in mind, though, it feels great to him even if he doesn't orgasm. We all want that, of course, but if he doesn't orgasm by your hand/mouth you can excite him to a point and ask him to masturbate until he cums while you watch (and maybe even masturbate next to him.)

Originally posted by: scarbowl
I'd suggest using your mouth and hand at the same time. You rub him and lick/suck the head at the same time.

If he can masturbate to orgasm then he should be able to cum through your efforts.

Yep, I've used the hand and mouth combo nd have licked, sucked, biten, nibbled, used mints, ice, coca-cola,etc etc

masturbating doesnt make him come either, although he commes when we fuck, and he only comes in certain positions too.... :confused:

Rawr! What do I do??

YouTube "emotional freedom techniques" to find out how you can use them to make him orgasm.

Originally posted by: FemaleOrgasm
YouTube "emotional freedom techniques" to find out how you can use them to make him orgasm.

I've watched it... but how will that make him orgasm??:confused:

"Even though I have problems cumming during oral sex, I deeply and completely accept myself."

for a free ebook on the details of EFT. And then DO IT. If your boyfriend is bit weirded out by EFT, you can do "surrogate tapping". When you tap your own pressure points and tap on his behalf. It sounds unbelievable but more and more medical doctors are using EFT on their patients.

Practice makes purrfect :D LOL