Ask Dan & Jennifer

i think that with the lack of trust you have for him and how you have cheated on him various times. that it could possibly be time for you two to move on. it seems that you may feel that you have gotten all you can out of this relationship but you dont exactly want to admit it just yet. which is understandable because letting go is hard. Its as if you want to experiment with others sexually but you dont want him out of your life and if you break up with him that is what might happen. So either that you will have to find a way to make it work and let him know you want it to work which includes telling him about how youve messed up and made mistakes which is very hard. You could also tell him you think it time to break up but somehow letting him know you still want him to be a part of your life and if its possible try to be friends if thats not to much for you to ask of him. Please keep in mind you dont have to do what im telling you and that these are just ideas. I dont know anymore than the information you have given me but i just hope what i have said helps you in some way or another.

Howdy I read your question, and I hope my response helps you out.

From what you told me in your question it seems that both you and your boyfriend have lost interest in each others company. I can understand you not wanting to break the relationship up, but try thinking about it this way, if yall are both cheating on each other than is it worth staying together even when yall both go to others for affection / possibly sex / and comfort? If you both are going to others for the things that you should be relying on each other for then haven't yall both broken the spoken or unspoken commitment yall established when you started going out. If your unhappy with what your relationship has turned into, it might be in your best interest to have a clean breakup and to start over with someone new. I have a friend who reminded me that when you lose your virginity to someone, you most likely will feel close to that person, that might be why your hesistant to end the relationship. If I were you I would find someone new that would care about me, someone who wants to be with me because they like my personality as well as being physically attracted to me. I hope this helped. Good luck I hope it works out for the best for you both.

Sincerely

Colby

find sombody eles it wont work once a cheat always a cheat! unless you just give up your urgeez and grow up abit, because you know your doing rong and he knows it find sombody and treat them right.

I am really sorry to hear that, but please don't let your feelings get the better of you. You are doing this as a revenge because he is cheating on you.

If you don't care about this relationship anymore, the sooner you end it the better, because you are destroying both you and your boyfriend right now, the moment you end this relationship, you will start to value yourself more.

Having sex with multiple partners will only increase your chances getting any sorts of decease, it is not worth it.

Do you know women are weaker of the 2 genders? Do you know women are more likely to have cancer than men? Take good care of yourself and I wish you all the best for your future relationships.

But if you don't agree with me, trust yourself is the only way out for u, do what you think it is best, not short term, but long term.

To be honest with you, If a partner of yours is always cheating, there's a real problem there, you both need to talk and address what is really going on, if that cant happen then the problem is not going to get solved and then i suggest possibly that maybe you should discontinue the relationship if the problem isnt being addressed and nothing is changing.