I met a German guy 4 years ago on the internet. There was a period of time in where I didn’t see him for a long time, but we started talking again. Since we first met, we had a real nice chemistry. I felt we could talk about anything and he really wanted to come to my country (Puerto Rico). I really like this guy, from all this time he seems to be a real nice person and I really want him to come over. This year, for some reason, we can’t stop talking and we always try to e-mail each other when we’re not able to chat on any instant messenger. He told me he was coming for February or June. I been into other disappointing long distance relationships before and I am scared this one will be the same. I don’t know if I should follow my instincts and insecurities about this guy of not coming or should I wait for him to arrive. I am really scared of getting hurt, but he doesn’t know I like him more than just a friend. I’ve always wanted a man like him and now that I met him I don’t know what to do. Should I continue our friendship and see if he arrives or should I simply get him out of my mind and that he might come and get a bit of distance from him to avoid getting hurt? :confused: