okay, so I end up giving my gf oral a lot, and I just absolutely love to do it, I love being able to do that for her and please her and hear her moans of pleasure and making her orgasm, but she rarely ever does the same for me...it's not that I necessarily expect it back all the time, I would just like to get it every now and then...I have tried talk to her, and she doesn't have a reason why she won't...we are not having vaginal sex because she is keeping her virginity till she is married, so I try to please her every way possible, and I feel like the only way she wants to please me is by giving me a hand job, which I absolutely love when she touches me, I really really do...I just feel like I'm putting more into pleasing her and after a while.. I feel like she doesn't care about pleasing me as much as I want to please her.... I just need help please, and thank you...