I have a question about Dominance and sexual anatomy

in Sex and Intimacy » Sex Tips and Advice • 2 years ago

Hello, lately I’ve been feeling really board with my sex life. My boyfriend is extremely submissive and is very impassive when it comes to sex. He wont make a sound, a body movement, or even speak to be when we engage in intercourse. I’ve tried telling him what I would like to change, but he says he’s to embarrassed to do the things I ask. What should I do? I want him to be more dominant and give me feedback, but I don’t want to force him to do so either.

Also I’ve heard many different view on the hole ‘can not get pregnant if you have sex on your period’ thing. Some experts say you can, others say you can’t? I realize that the sperm can live in the vagina for two whole days before dieing, but still that doesn’t guarantee they will wind an egg? Could someone please answer my questions? I would really appreciate it!

Replies(3)

nova_danj..

Re: I have a question about Dominance and sexual anatomy

2 years ago

First off, how old are you and how old is he? Also, how long have you two been together and started having sex? You may or may not be into this but introducing BDSM could be an idea and if you look in the BDSM forum, you'll find a lot of ideas there. If he's very shy and quiet when you two are having intercourse, try to guide him in ways that will please you.

Xero

Re: I have a question about Dominance and sexual anatomy

2 years ago

Just slowly work on having him respond to you during sex, it's probably just a comfort zone issue that he will get used to in time.

For the whole period thing, just use a condom. Never risk the chance, it's life we are talking about and anything can happen at any given time. So yes you can get pregnant.

femaleorg..

Increase his testosterone

2 years ago

Feed him meat, nuts, whey protein, eggs, fish, brocolli and brussel sprouts.

Encourage him to lift heavy weights and do martial arts. These things will increase his testosterone and therefore dominance.

It's possible to get pregnant if you have unprotected sex during your period but it's highly unlikely because sperm are trying to swim through blood and the blood is flowing against them.