I have "Daddy" fantasies... is this dangerous or weird?!?!

in Sex and Intimacy » Fetishes and Sexual Fantasies • 3 years ago

First of all, I just want to make it clear that I don't have fantasies of MY own father and I have never been sexually abused by my father, nor do I endorse incest. Alright, let's carry on. I have posted a long time ago in a different thread that I tend to be attracted to older men because I like the idea of being totally submissive and over-powered... even to brink of degradation. I think I may have mentioned then that I have daddy-fantasies, but I somehow never remembered reading any responses, even if there were any.

Many times, to get myself off, I like to read incest-erotica, mostly about the taboo sexual relations between an older father and his younger daughter. I... love it! It gets me hot and bothered and I even sometimes find myself wishing it was me in the story.

At first I thought I was so going to hell for this :). But... I mean, for the sake of defending myself, it's never me and my dad. The thought of it makes me want to throw up, it's so sickening and disgusting! Ew... seriously, my own father is the least person on my mind when I masturbate to this fantasy. This fantasy always starts out with a father and daughter and me, just a fly on the wall, watching their forbidden lust unfold. And the times when I get even more into it, I would imagine the girl being me.

Anyway... is this dangerous? Can this turn into reality, in which I will find myself desiring my own father!?!?! Because, I don't want this in reality! It seriously makes me sick to think about it.

However, while surfing the Craigslist personals, I once caught a self-ad of a 53 year old man who wanted to play out HIS father-daughter fantasy. Needless to say... I was VERY tempted to reply, but my fear of being killed and chopped up into pieces overpowered this temptation- thank God! Yet... is this going to be what I have to resort to, to achieve the ultimate pleasure? Will I, one day, need to play out this fantasy so I can get it out of my system?!

Any insight is helpful, thanks!

Replies(3)

the_beaut..

Good little girl

3 years ago

Hey girlfriend,

You share one of my #1 fantasies - daddy daughter stuff gets me HOT.

And like you, I have no desire for my real father.

I used to keep the fantasy to myself, in my head, but as I became more confident in my sexuality, I started sharing it with my partners. None of my partners were comfortable roleplaying this fantasy - the closest I could get them to do is pretend I'm the babysitter, ha!

BUT I finally found a guy I have great chemistry with who can indulge me, and it is super hot. Funny thing is, I'm 35 and he's 32! But he still plays my big strong Daddy overpowering me and having his way with me, and it works. Sometimes we mix it up and I'm the naughty girl seducing her handsome uncle...

Anyway, acting these fantasies out in a safe way has only made me feel more sexually healthy and happy. It's just for fun. It hasn't change my attitude towards my real father at all - that's a completely separate issue and irrelevant.

As for looking for someone to act this out with, such as on CL, I think you can pursue that with caution. You can put an ad up with a faceless shot of yourself and a description of what you are looking for, and you'll get 200 responses in no time. Then you can choose the ones you want to pursue, narrow it down to two or three that look promising. Make sure and get a pic of them, and if you want to meet them, meet somewhere public the first time, like a coffee shop. Make sure they are kind and respectful, and discuss what you like and your limits. For instance they might be interested in spanking you, is that part of your fantasy? Take ownership of your sexuality and do things ON YOUR TERMS.

You really should check out my blog, I cover this fetish and more. Here is one hot post you might like: My Pearl and Daddy Knows Best

Best to you!
TBK

et_from_c..

Re: I have "Daddy" fantasies... is this dangerous or weird?!?!

3 years ago

Thank you! I am glad I am not the only one! I mean... I know that there were others out there, because those incest-erotica must cater to SOMEONE, right? lol. But, it is refreshing to share this with someone else in a safe and respectful atmostphere.

I know... I really need to do this. And by "this" I mean, play this out. I NEED to, it's killing me NOT to. I feel like I will never feel fulfilled if I dont try it just once. It's just that... as much as I desperately want to, I am afraid to take the first step. I am afraid to meet a stranger and have sex with him. I am afraid that I'll get so hooked on it, I cant have sex any other way.

For those of you who have answered personal-sex ads, do you have any tips? How should I go about this the first time? Just thinking about it makes my heart beat faster! I am afraid that I am a coward in such predicaments.

viper_dan..

Re: I have "Daddy" fantasies... is this dangerous or weird?!?!

2 years ago

This is a very nice fantacy to play out with the right person. My ex and I were very much on the same page with this one. She would always call me daddy. That was my pet name. It is really rather normal and does not mean in any way that you want to have sex with your real father just that you enjoy the dominating aspect of the daddy role. Talk with your partner and I would think you will find most men more than willing to play this fantacy out with you. All of my male friends were more than a little jealous of what I had and they all had the fantacy of being daddy. Age does not matter either. It is more the fantacy than the fact. I was daddy to a woman who was 10 years older than I was and it played out very nice. Good luck.