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Im 19 and i've had a few girl friends, though nothing too serious...however back when i was 15/16 i met someone in highschool a year younger, and we were good friends, i helped her through her ex-boyfriends, Until feelings started to develop I was just to shy to ask her and i doubted everything between us...when i finally found out she would have said yes, i already had quit. Just this last october we started to hang out a lot and I just asked her out out of the blue and she said we should wait a while, like 2 months...Around January i asked her out again...she said wait longer, but she assumed i was rushing and said if i REALLY wanted to start dating, we could, but i put her interests ahead of me. (mistake? im not sure...) Now its nearing August and i am going to make one last attempt, because i dont want to be lead on, im starting to doubt her and my feeligns for her as well, perhaps she is just using me? She does not open up as much, only in tense situations. When i ask why she does all of it...she says shes being "defensive"...What i dont understand is how she dated the previous guys in a heartbeat and they weren't anything that special.. dont want to brag or anything but they didnt even graduate highschool, im in college and i have a job and a car. Her parents don't even mind me. I just dont know what to do now, i REALLY like her and everyones telling me im wasting my time, go find another one, you could have found a girl in the time waiting for this one...etc. So yeh...i decided to just ask her out this week and if she makes me wait or simply says no, im gonna quit on her...because im getting the feeling as if i have to prove my self to her, when she makes no attempt with me when she openly admitted she had feelings for me. Could they have diminished or am i just thinking too much....Any comments/suggestions? :confused:
