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I need one more bit of information before I can help-are you male or female?

I'm a male...can you please help?

Originally posted by: rob
I need one more bit of information before I can help-are you male or female?

I'm a male. =] please help?

In which case, don't worry. It's fairly normal for men to not be multi-orgasmic.
If you're worried about not keeping the feeling, then don't forget, the only reason for masturbating is because of the feeling. You can't attain this feeling whilst not 'in the mood' and you'll never be in the mood while you can't masturbate. (I hope that makes sense).
Wait five minutes or so-maximum-and it should be possible again. One thing I'm wondering is why you need to climax more than once in such a short time. Sure, it feels good, :D, but it isn't necessary that often.

Originally posted by: rob
In which case, don't worry. It's fairly normal for men to not be multi-orgasmic.
If you're worried about not keeping the feeling, then don't forget, the only reason for masturbating is because of the feeling. You can't attain this feeling whilst not 'in the mood' and you'll never be in the mood while you can't masturbate. (I hope that makes sense).
Wait five minutes or so-maximum-and it should be possible again. One thing I'm wondering is why you need to climax more than once in such a short time. Sure, it feels good, :D, but it isn't necessary that often.

because it feels good and i dont want it to stop... it just feels like i lose my arousment as soon as i cum..it's weird

Everyone feels like that. unless you're multi-orgasmic, that will always happen.
look up how to become multi orgasmic if you want to find out how. otherwise, get used to what you have.
side note: (don't answer if you don't want to) how long have you been masturbating for? the effects seem to lessen a bit, or at least you become used to them, fter a while.

I agree with Rob. What you're describing is a perfectly normal pattern for a male. Almost all men have a refractory period after climax during which they lose their erection and can't climax again. It's perfectly natural and normal. I don't really know of any way to change that because it's ultimately based on hormonal changes that follow orgasm.

one more question tho...what if i was having sexual intercourse with a woman?...would that make any significant difference?

Don't think so.
It's the same physical stimulus, only from a different source.

I agree with Rob. The vast majority of men require a recovery period of 20-40 minutes before they are able to function sexually a second time.

because it feels good and i dont want it to stop... it just feels like i lose my arousment as soon as i cum..it's weird

That's exactly what's supposed to happen to a male. If you were to research it, you would see.

It's the refractory period.
Rest, and resume when ready.

A way to be able to have another orgasm quickly, after the first, is to rub on the base of the head of the penis; not sure how, but, if you do it during orgasm, it's easier to get another erection and try again.
One thing that worries me though is that you have the sheer willpower to, after masturbating, want to do it again.

When I was younger, I could start up again right away sometimes.
I can't usually do that now though.
I remember when an ex-girlfriend and I were at the verge of breaking up.
We went to a hotel for our anniversary and she broke up the next day. Anyway, that night I came, then immediately changed to a spoon position, and resumed fucking, without a rest. It must have been because I knew I was losing her. I was 40 yrs old at that time.