I need advise

in Sex and Intimacy » Sex Tips and Advice • 2 years ago

Ok.. i have been with my boyfriend for awhile. and he just asked me to finger him in the ass while i give him head.. Well i did it and he loved it.. Now in my mind i can stop asking why does he like it?? and now he wants me to buy a dildo and put it in his ass.. after he has sex with me.. I want to do it for him cause im up for anything.. but in the back of my head im like does this make him gay?why does he like that.. i dont think it.. it hurts me so why does he like it.. Please help me out....

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Beagle

Re: I need advise

2 years ago

Lyms87: Enjoying anal stimulation doesn't mean a man is gay. It is simply an erogenous area for a lot of men and women. Sexual orientation is very complex. Enjoying anal stimulation doesn't indicate sexual orientation either way.

The best indication of sexual orientation isn't what you do, it's what you fantasize about while you're doing it. Obviously, your fear is continuing the relationship and then finding out he is gay and that deep down he wants to be with a man. Only he knows the answer to that. That's a conversation you and he will have to have.

lyms87

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2 years ago

ive ask him before and he tells me no... that he likes girls... its just why dose he like it... and he wants to do me in the ass.. and it hurts... i just am confused on why he wants it..

stephen_d..

Advise

2 years ago

The only advice i see you are needing is you both need to communicate with each other. Next thing recommend is to go nice and easy. Anal sex is something you like or don't , just remember he is enjoying the fact you are doing him. As for him wanting to anal sex with you. This is something you are going to have to want or try. If you do go very slow and enjoy what you are doing..

Best of luck

slittylic..

watch this

2 years ago

'http://forum.askdanandjennifer.com/topic/am-i-bi'

femaleorg..

The orgasm muscles

2 years ago

can be stimulated via anal stimulation. It's just a biology thing. That doesn't make him gay.

faylor

Re: I need advise

2 years ago

I think you are over reacting. I myself love it when my wife does this very same thing to me. It dosent happen often but when it does look out baby here it comes. I dont feel that im gay or have gay thought or whatever you want to call it, If your not comfortable doing this to him then you need to let him know this. If he dosent accept it then tough buy him some anal beads or whatever and watch him go to town, maybe you can help him out with a handjob or something like that. He then needs to understand your discomfort and not force the issue, trust me if he is male he is just as good at getting himself off as you are. No offense to you hes a GUY never forget that.