Ask Dan & Jennifer

:( ok ive been with the love of my life for 3 years now. we have a beatiful daughter that is 20 months old now.., she has a 4 year old son (not mines) that calls be daddy and i love him as well.,. were both pritty young,. i being 23 she being 20...out of the 3 years we were together for the first two... alittle after my daughter was born we started to disconnect.,,. sex was no longer in joyable for her and she felt pressured to have it.., our realationship ended on a bad note so we stop communicating for a year unless it was for our childs sake.,.,, she had a couple of other partners she seemed comfortable with.,,. i only had two.,,.we just started to speak again this october and still feel like we love eachother and wanna start a fresh new start.,., she is going threw a brake up with her ex wich she was with for a couple of months...and also an abortion by his doing.,,. she tells me that she wants myself and her to practice salibancy til marriage., i agreed.,,. since that month of october i been non sexualy active and i been doing my best to keep her happy., realy pampering her!!! we get into little fights but make up fast.,,.she thinks that all i care about is sex and jus want to get in her pants cause i make alot of sex chokes.,,. tho its hard i dont mind the commitment but i feel as if threw out the months she havent realy been appreaciating me and all that i have done., she thinks im being overly nice as investment for sex.,,.she offered to have sex for new years and brake her salibancy to start out realationship of with a good start... ofcoarse being a man that havent had sex for 3 months i am in joy and lookin foward to it.,., we had a great new years and at the end of the night,. she tells me she felt uncomfortable having sex with me because we havent had it in so long.,,. we didnt have sex that night,.,.. i was realy hurt..

alltho we been getting along these past months i realy feel like she havent gone those few extra miles that i have to prove that she still loves me.,., sometimes when i touch her she pushes me away and i feel unwanted or unattractive in her eyes., she thinks im all bout sex.,.,., i sugguested that maybe we should remain friends but she replied that if i really still loved her i wouldnt be giving up on the realtionship so easy.,..,

i spend alot of money on trying to keep her happy this winter while shes going threw her problems but im getting scared and realy emotinal now and beginning to feel used.,.,. WHAT IS GOINH ON.... HELP ME!!!:eek: