Ask Dan & Jennifer

Nah! You are perfectly normal. When I was younger i used to read all these magazines that said things like "men fuck, women make love", that men only want to hump and women need romance, that men need to be more gentle and so on...This is very misleading because i have found that the great majority of women want to have the pure living hell screwed out of them, they like hard, rough, dirty sex and dirty talk just as much as we guys do. If your boyfriend has been exposed to the same pablum that I was he probably does believe that talking that way is disrespectful. You should just tell him that you like it! Get him to practice it some. Other than the dirty talk thing it sounds as if you ahve a very normal and healthy relationship for young lovers.

Dear Dan and Jennifer- I did read the posting guidelines on language and the choice of language I used here is not because I am not capable of using other words. I chose to use the "F word" because that phrase is a cliché that ahs appeared in many women's magazines. Also it goes with the theme of this thread.

I think you're fine. I also think it's great that you are able to admit that you love sex. It seems that so many people, women especially, feel that sex is something you shouldn't talk about, much less say you want to have more of. Sex is a beautiful and powerful part of life when used right. But, if it's used against someone, as in a rape or incest case, then it is a horrible and terribly destructive weapon probably more damaging than any bullet known to man (because it damages the mind).
Usually, when people of "nice company" think about using such dark and demanding language in conjunction with sex, they are more than likely thinking of a rape. But this is not necessarily the case. As long as everyone involved are consenting people of legal age, then it is part of the beautiful sexual experience. Some like it hard, some like it soft... just like food, music, movies, and clothes, we all have different tastes in sex. The key is knowing what you like and finding a partner who likes it the same way.
Try to convince your boyfriend that as long as his roughness and language is within the context of rough sex, it is OK. But if he were to treat you that way when not in that role playing mode, that is when it becomes wrong and demeaning.

I hope this helps!

I truly believe that what you're doing is healthy. Rather than keep it inside you and wait for it to explode. It's better off getting it out and getting it in if you know what I mean ;)

LOL if you want it that much you can punch eachother in the face while your doing it LOL you said you wanted it more aggresive :D