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Okay... so I'm looking at getting back together with my ex-fiancée. I'm the one who messed it up, and we're dealing with all our old issues. That aside...
As a couple, we've talked about finding another couple because we're both bi. But one of the stipulations at first was that it wouldn't turn into wife swapping, because neither of us were 100% comfortable with it.
But she found a bi couple since she and I took a break and has had several threesomes with them. She's also had alone time with each of them, both the girl and the guy. I have no problems with this at the moment. That being said, the couple, myself, and my ex are discussing me joining the three of them as a swinger couple.
No alarms are going off in my head as far as my own concerns, but.....
I wonder if I should be concerned as to what will happen to us as separate couples if every other weekend or so we all join in the debauchery of not only guy/guy and girl/girl sex, but 3somes, 4somes, and wife swapping as well. Well... more my ex bouncing between me and the guy since his wife has hangups about having sex with a man who's not her husband due to her strict religious upbringing.
It's not that I have those concerns as of yet, but something inside me tells me that I should. Am I right to think I should be concerned, or is it just that it's a social taboo from my upbringing? Please help as I don't want to go into this and run into these problems later or possibly even call it off for no reason. The couple she found are great people, and we all seem to get along well, and i'd hate to end up having anybody feel like it's a mistake.
As a couple, we've talked about finding another couple because we're both bi. But one of the stipulations at first was that it wouldn't turn into wife swapping, because neither of us were 100% comfortable with it.
But she found a bi couple since she and I took a break and has had several threesomes with them. She's also had alone time with each of them, both the girl and the guy. I have no problems with this at the moment. That being said, the couple, myself, and my ex are discussing me joining the three of them as a swinger couple.
No alarms are going off in my head as far as my own concerns, but.....
I wonder if I should be concerned as to what will happen to us as separate couples if every other weekend or so we all join in the debauchery of not only guy/guy and girl/girl sex, but 3somes, 4somes, and wife swapping as well. Well... more my ex bouncing between me and the guy since his wife has hangups about having sex with a man who's not her husband due to her strict religious upbringing.
It's not that I have those concerns as of yet, but something inside me tells me that I should. Am I right to think I should be concerned, or is it just that it's a social taboo from my upbringing? Please help as I don't want to go into this and run into these problems later or possibly even call it off for no reason. The couple she found are great people, and we all seem to get along well, and i'd hate to end up having anybody feel like it's a mistake.
