I'm not the only one she plays hard to get!

in Love and Relationships » Relationship Advice • 3 years ago

I've liked my best friend for about 3 years know and I don't know how to get her to notice me or how to ask her out. I have never told anyone she has no clue i like her,is that a problem.A few days ago i was going to give up but i realized shes only had 1 boyfriend and she rejects all the guys that have asked her out.She's one of those girls that are hard to get and i don't know what to do I'm very confused please help. all in all shes a very nice person and would be heart broken for the worst.

Replies(3)

cocky_dan..

Hard to get or holding out?

3 years ago

It's a good thing that you haven't told anyone else before her! When you have a situation with someone, you talk to them and no one else.

You say she rejects most guys? Has it occurred to you that she may be waiting for you? Just say exactly how you feel about her and be honest about it. It doesn't have to get weird just because you say you have feelings for her.

Hopefully, if she doesn't like you as much, the both of you are mature enough to not let it ruin a good friendship.

Good luck! :)

rick_in_c..

Re: I'm not the only one she plays hard to get!

3 years ago

Originally posted by: Cocky
It's a good thing that you haven't told anyone else before her! When you have a situation with someone, you talk to them and no one else.

You say she rejects most guys? Has it occurred to you that she may be waiting for you? Just say exactly how you feel about her and be honest about it. It doesn't have to get weird just because you say you have feelings for her.

Hopefully, if she doesn't like you as much, the both of you are mature enough to not let it ruin a good friendship.

Good luck! :)

Thanks i shall do so

jjdubbie

playing hard to get...

3 years ago

a girl that plays hard to get, makes a guy like them even more. the fact that she does that is to wait for the right guy that suits her and perhaps maybe you're just the guy for her. as a friend, she should understand whatever happens, whether its physically, mentally or emotionally, she'll understand.

the fact that she rejects the other guys that ask her out, maybe she feels insecure after the first boyfriend and so she'll think that she'll end up in the same thing with any other guy.

This of course is just MY opinion
hope this helps
-jjdubbie:)