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:(PLEASE read this it is long Iknow, and totally rediculace.
My bf does a lot for me.
We moved in right away, and have been together 24/7 ever since.
I have a few problems with him that I can NOT deal with.
1. He is insencitive of my feelings. He KNOWS I don't like it when is grabs my butt, spanks it ALL OF THE TIME, and does otherthings I do NOT like and I have told him this from day one (1 1/2 years ago!) He called me "seven rolls of fat" when I was feeling insecure which I still do since I met him I have gained 20lbs and not been able to loose it. When I write my stories he tells me he doesn't want to talk about it or hear it.
2. He is mean to the puppy. When eithr me or his mother tell him to stop doing things to her (throw her, hold her in weird positions, shout at her, and not let her go) his reply is "she likes it" which she CLEARY does NOT and since he bought her for my 6month present she is HIS because she is in his name. She LOVES me, and is scared when I leave.
3. He makes me feel bad. He does a lot for me financially, and since I don't have a job yet I feel bad. When I ask him to get me water he does it.
4. He is EXTREAMLY controlling. He has read EVERY diary I have ever owned and then gotten mad,a nd brings it up every day about "other guys" but since I am with him I don't even have any gir friends. He knows al of my passwords, and checks up on me ALL of the time. I have NO life I am at the house all day, and he still thinks something bad MUST be happening. When I write my stories he gets FURIOUS because one of the characters flirted with another (she is single).
He is mad because my passwords have "nothing to do with him" and beacuse I talk about things that have nothing to do with him, and then he tries to say I AM talking about him, and gets mad.
When I was at school, or a job he is mad saying the only reason I am there is to flirt with guys, and he gets mad.
5. He is ALL about sex. When he is around me he is either touching me, watching porn, trying to get hard, or asking me to do something, or getting mad because I want to have MORE than sex.
When we DO have sex he complains, when we don't he is MAD saying "we NEVER have sex" and mad that I do NOT enjoy it up my butt, and mad that I don't want to give him head ALL the time no matter where we are.
The other night I was not feeling well, and whenever I don't feel well he goes into the other room, or gets mad.
He wanted sex so I let him have it, and it was not fun. I threw up in the bathroom, and he overheard. when he asked if I had I said "no" and he was FURIOUS that I didn't tell him instead of worried why I was sick.
This is only a few examples...
PLEASE tell me what I am doing wrong, and how to fix our relationship...
I have NEVER given him a reason to think I am doing something wrong.
I TELL him how I feel streight out so any CHILD would understand. He still doesn't listen. I must be doing something wrong. HELP!!!
My bf does a lot for me.
We moved in right away, and have been together 24/7 ever since.
I have a few problems with him that I can NOT deal with.
1. He is insencitive of my feelings. He KNOWS I don't like it when is grabs my butt, spanks it ALL OF THE TIME, and does otherthings I do NOT like and I have told him this from day one (1 1/2 years ago!) He called me "seven rolls of fat" when I was feeling insecure which I still do since I met him I have gained 20lbs and not been able to loose it. When I write my stories he tells me he doesn't want to talk about it or hear it.
2. He is mean to the puppy. When eithr me or his mother tell him to stop doing things to her (throw her, hold her in weird positions, shout at her, and not let her go) his reply is "she likes it" which she CLEARY does NOT and since he bought her for my 6month present she is HIS because she is in his name. She LOVES me, and is scared when I leave.
3. He makes me feel bad. He does a lot for me financially, and since I don't have a job yet I feel bad. When I ask him to get me water he does it.
4. He is EXTREAMLY controlling. He has read EVERY diary I have ever owned and then gotten mad,a nd brings it up every day about "other guys" but since I am with him I don't even have any gir friends. He knows al of my passwords, and checks up on me ALL of the time. I have NO life I am at the house all day, and he still thinks something bad MUST be happening. When I write my stories he gets FURIOUS because one of the characters flirted with another (she is single).
He is mad because my passwords have "nothing to do with him" and beacuse I talk about things that have nothing to do with him, and then he tries to say I AM talking about him, and gets mad.
When I was at school, or a job he is mad saying the only reason I am there is to flirt with guys, and he gets mad.
5. He is ALL about sex. When he is around me he is either touching me, watching porn, trying to get hard, or asking me to do something, or getting mad because I want to have MORE than sex.
When we DO have sex he complains, when we don't he is MAD saying "we NEVER have sex" and mad that I do NOT enjoy it up my butt, and mad that I don't want to give him head ALL the time no matter where we are.
The other night I was not feeling well, and whenever I don't feel well he goes into the other room, or gets mad.
He wanted sex so I let him have it, and it was not fun. I threw up in the bathroom, and he overheard. when he asked if I had I said "no" and he was FURIOUS that I didn't tell him instead of worried why I was sick.
This is only a few examples...
PLEASE tell me what I am doing wrong, and how to fix our relationship...
I have NEVER given him a reason to think I am doing something wrong.
I TELL him how I feel streight out so any CHILD would understand. He still doesn't listen. I must be doing something wrong. HELP!!!
