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After long, long time, of all kinds of strange dates and men, I have finally met a very nice guy on a dating sight. We have emailed, chated and talked on skype almost daily, for the past one month. He lives in an other country and he decided to come to see me for Easter. He seems to be a honest and kind person,we had both very funny and very deep conversations, and I am definitely looking forward to meet him. After all, traveling to see me from an other country, surelly seems like he is serious.
Still I decided to take the thing slowly, because I had some bad time with scammers in my past and in general like to be sure I am safe. He asked me for my phone number several times, and I refused to give it to him. He did not make much problem out of it. He asked me yesterday about the accomodation, whether to book a hotel or to stay in my plac. I told him to book a room in a hotel. I offered him to help him book the room, and he told me that he would do it alone and maybe ask my help late ron. When I told him about staying in a hotel, his words seemed all right with that, but still there was something in his voice, which told me he might be confused, as if he did not expect this. I could sense that he was not really understanding why am I so cautious, nor was he very happy about it. He did not insist, not was pusshy, but there simplly was something in the air which told me he might not like the idea. I tried to explain, but I wonder if it did not really help him. I am pretty honest and open person, when it comes to communication, and he also seemd so, but as not really willing to talk about this topic (he changed the topic). It is my oppinion, that if he really likes and cares about me, he should not really make much problem of this. I just want to be sure he is the person I think he is...the person I have been talkig to for the past month.
I need your oppinion. Do you think that I am a bit paranoid about being so cautious, or do you think that it is all right, an dthat he should be understandable. I do really trust him, but my head still tells me better to be smart'n safe than sorry. What is your oppinion? Or is it that I am just scared of a possibility which looks so perfect? I feel so much confused. Please help.
Still I decided to take the thing slowly, because I had some bad time with scammers in my past and in general like to be sure I am safe. He asked me for my phone number several times, and I refused to give it to him. He did not make much problem out of it. He asked me yesterday about the accomodation, whether to book a hotel or to stay in my plac. I told him to book a room in a hotel. I offered him to help him book the room, and he told me that he would do it alone and maybe ask my help late ron. When I told him about staying in a hotel, his words seemed all right with that, but still there was something in his voice, which told me he might be confused, as if he did not expect this. I could sense that he was not really understanding why am I so cautious, nor was he very happy about it. He did not insist, not was pusshy, but there simplly was something in the air which told me he might not like the idea. I tried to explain, but I wonder if it did not really help him. I am pretty honest and open person, when it comes to communication, and he also seemd so, but as not really willing to talk about this topic (he changed the topic). It is my oppinion, that if he really likes and cares about me, he should not really make much problem of this. I just want to be sure he is the person I think he is...the person I have been talkig to for the past month.
I need your oppinion. Do you think that I am a bit paranoid about being so cautious, or do you think that it is all right, an dthat he should be understandable. I do really trust him, but my head still tells me better to be smart'n safe than sorry. What is your oppinion? Or is it that I am just scared of a possibility which looks so perfect? I feel so much confused. Please help.
