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Hello everybody. sorry if this is the wrong section. i'll just get to it, sorry if this is really long by the way
I am 19 and just out of high school. i have been dating my current Girlfriend Kati for 3 and a half years. for the past two months how ever things have been going roughly. we have been having some communication issues, and we just got over most of our sexual problems. but my household hasent been very stable either with various medical issues with my father. due to our constant arguing and lack of communication i have been having some inner problems of my own. i developed feelings for my ex. Renee.
me and my ex were crazy close. we have alot of things in common. we broke up because she was at her cousins house in vermont and was acting very different. a month later she comes back and dosent wana see me for a little while. i ask her whats wrong but she pushed me away. i finally let go and was devistated. she asked me why i left her and after some talking i found out i made a huge mistake because she didnt want me leaving her. i couldent ask her back out because by that time she walked back into her house and locked her door. i regreted it alot. since then we've tried to stay in contact. Kati made me cut contact a little over a half a year ago because she has low self esteam.
back to the present.
i've had these feelings i used to feel when i was with Renee now every time i see a picture of her or talk to her on messangers. weak knees, knot in my chest and what have you. and it's worrying me, especially when my friend talks about her current boyfriend i wana throw my phone at the wall and i by nature am not a very violent person.
i talked to my two best friends about this and i got two dramatically different results.
my one friend suggest i get away for a week from my current girlfriend, because she is over at my house alot, and talk to my ex, find out how she feels and talk to her for a while. after that week make my decision. he said me and my current girlfriend havent been the same latly and getting away and talking to Renee might be good for me especially since were going through troubles right now and Kati forcing me not to talk to Renee may be adding onto my termoil and distress.
my other friend gave me the pros and cons of every possable situation. he sadly didnt know me when i was with her so most of his information didnt seam like something she would do.
i talked to Kati about it yesterday and she got very upset {duh} when i told her i had feelings about Renee, but also for her.
i dont know what i should do. when ever i think about Renee i think about the good times we had and how happy i could be with her, and when ever i think about Kati i think about the good times we've had but also the rocky road were on and how it's hurting the both of us but how we could be happy in the end. she is desperatly in love with me as she's told me and dosent want to lose me, and i dont want to lose her either, but i dont wana let Renee slip through my fingers again either.
i know this sounds cheesy but i feel torn between these two women and dont know what to do. any thoughts =/
I am 19 and just out of high school. i have been dating my current Girlfriend Kati for 3 and a half years. for the past two months how ever things have been going roughly. we have been having some communication issues, and we just got over most of our sexual problems. but my household hasent been very stable either with various medical issues with my father. due to our constant arguing and lack of communication i have been having some inner problems of my own. i developed feelings for my ex. Renee.
me and my ex were crazy close. we have alot of things in common. we broke up because she was at her cousins house in vermont and was acting very different. a month later she comes back and dosent wana see me for a little while. i ask her whats wrong but she pushed me away. i finally let go and was devistated. she asked me why i left her and after some talking i found out i made a huge mistake because she didnt want me leaving her. i couldent ask her back out because by that time she walked back into her house and locked her door. i regreted it alot. since then we've tried to stay in contact. Kati made me cut contact a little over a half a year ago because she has low self esteam.
back to the present.
i've had these feelings i used to feel when i was with Renee now every time i see a picture of her or talk to her on messangers. weak knees, knot in my chest and what have you. and it's worrying me, especially when my friend talks about her current boyfriend i wana throw my phone at the wall and i by nature am not a very violent person.
i talked to my two best friends about this and i got two dramatically different results.
my one friend suggest i get away for a week from my current girlfriend, because she is over at my house alot, and talk to my ex, find out how she feels and talk to her for a while. after that week make my decision. he said me and my current girlfriend havent been the same latly and getting away and talking to Renee might be good for me especially since were going through troubles right now and Kati forcing me not to talk to Renee may be adding onto my termoil and distress.
my other friend gave me the pros and cons of every possable situation. he sadly didnt know me when i was with her so most of his information didnt seam like something she would do.
i talked to Kati about it yesterday and she got very upset {duh} when i told her i had feelings about Renee, but also for her.
i dont know what i should do. when ever i think about Renee i think about the good times we had and how happy i could be with her, and when ever i think about Kati i think about the good times we've had but also the rocky road were on and how it's hurting the both of us but how we could be happy in the end. she is desperatly in love with me as she's told me and dosent want to lose me, and i dont want to lose her either, but i dont wana let Renee slip through my fingers again either.
i know this sounds cheesy but i feel torn between these two women and dont know what to do. any thoughts =/
