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A year and a half ago, after six years of marriage, I divorced Peter because of his ongoing problem with porn, masturbation and going to men's clubs. I moved on, put him behind me and started dating other guys. Frankly, I like my new freedom and haven't dated any one guy more than 5 or 6 times. I enjoy sex with the guys I date, but never on the first date, and never more than 3 or 4 times before I dump them.
After a year on his own, Peter lost his job and company car. Since he was destitute, I let him move into the small apartment behind my garage, and I gave him a job taking care of my rather large house, yard, pool, etc. In the house, he cooks, does dishes and laundry. Outside, he has plenty to keep himself busy. All this saves me about $30,000/year in domestic services, and I enjoy having him as my "watch-dog." Since I live in the country and he has no car, he's house-bound unless I take him with me shopping, which I do about once or twice a week. I pay him with free rent, food, and I make the minimum monthly payment on his maxed-out credit card, which I'm holding as long as he is under my roof.
At first, in order to get control of his sexually addictive nature, I forbade him to masturbate more than once a week, and only when I feel he's earned the right.On that night, I give him a photo album with pix of me. He has no other access to any porn, cable channels, or internet. We have no sexual intimacy, other than I do let him give me oral once in awhile. So he has no other sexual outlet than when I let him masturbate. He's agreed to all this, because I know that he eventually wants to move back into the house and into my bed.
Several months ago, a lingerie catalog came in the mail and he used it to masturbate. I realized that he had "cheated" my system that evening when I came home, as I could tell by looking at him. He had that guilty look. I was furious, of course, and bought a CB-3000, and then a CB-6000. I've had him locked up now for over three months, unless I let him out to masturbate, which I do about three times a month. It took him a week or so to get used to it, but he now seems pretty content with the schedule I have him on. My older sister thinks I'm too strict with him, and that three times a month is not enough. Am I unreasonable, and should I let him masturbate more often? I want to be fair, but I don't want to overindulge him. He can leave any time he wants.
After a year on his own, Peter lost his job and company car. Since he was destitute, I let him move into the small apartment behind my garage, and I gave him a job taking care of my rather large house, yard, pool, etc. In the house, he cooks, does dishes and laundry. Outside, he has plenty to keep himself busy. All this saves me about $30,000/year in domestic services, and I enjoy having him as my "watch-dog." Since I live in the country and he has no car, he's house-bound unless I take him with me shopping, which I do about once or twice a week. I pay him with free rent, food, and I make the minimum monthly payment on his maxed-out credit card, which I'm holding as long as he is under my roof.
At first, in order to get control of his sexually addictive nature, I forbade him to masturbate more than once a week, and only when I feel he's earned the right.On that night, I give him a photo album with pix of me. He has no other access to any porn, cable channels, or internet. We have no sexual intimacy, other than I do let him give me oral once in awhile. So he has no other sexual outlet than when I let him masturbate. He's agreed to all this, because I know that he eventually wants to move back into the house and into my bed.
Several months ago, a lingerie catalog came in the mail and he used it to masturbate. I realized that he had "cheated" my system that evening when I came home, as I could tell by looking at him. He had that guilty look. I was furious, of course, and bought a CB-3000, and then a CB-6000. I've had him locked up now for over three months, unless I let him out to masturbate, which I do about three times a month. It took him a week or so to get used to it, but he now seems pretty content with the schedule I have him on. My older sister thinks I'm too strict with him, and that three times a month is not enough. Am I unreasonable, and should I let him masturbate more often? I want to be fair, but I don't want to overindulge him. He can leave any time he wants.
