Ask Dan & Jennifer

Maharaja: IT's perfectly normal to be single at 19, at least in the United States. "Normal" is in the eye of the beholder. I was single until I was 25. There's nothing wrong with that.

I dont' know why anyone would refuse to date someone who has been in a relationship before. Of course, that's your choice. By the time you're 19, you're not going to find many people who haven't been in relationships. Having someone who has some experience can actually be an asset in relationships. Of course, you may PREFER someone who hasn't. That's no one's decision except yours.

Who we date is ultimately a matter of preference. There's no absolute right or wrong answers, as long as everyone involved is a consenting adult.

Hmmm nope someone who has been in a relationship would be better for you.

Because then she can guide you, help you, teach you, make you more mature.

If you find a girl who has never been in a relationship you will have 2 people who don't know what they are doing...

how is that going to work?

It doesn't really matter if she has had a relationship before or not. All the experiences in her life will make her the person she is, like all the experiences in your life will make you the person you are.

Just because you have never been in a relationship doesn't mean that you should only date people who have never been in a relationship.

If you find someone you like, go for it. With luck, they will like you too.

Good luck

Being single at 19 is normal. An experienced women would probably not go for you because she would be able to tell you're inexperienced. So that makes your question kind of redundant.

Stop thinking of yourself as a boy. You are a man. Now, get out the best Bollywood DVDs and notice how the romantic heroes behave. Pay close attention to their slow, deep voices and their dominant body language. Notice how they don't seek approval and they don't complain.

Also look at real guys who are successful at dating.

Now start to absorb these traits into yourself.