Just a bit about us, My husband and I are both bi-sexual (I more than he) and very comfortable and open with our view and desires. We love each other very much and are best friends first.
Recently, my husband and I found out that a friend couple of ours has an open relationship and are into playing with other couples. (though there where hints, like watching sexy movies together, making corsets, and the topic of sex seems to come up frequently) After some further discussion, and much curiosity on my part, it was revealed that our female friend in the relationship is also bi-sexual. I was getting the feeling that this conversation was fishing and gauging our response and possible interest.
I am open and even excited about the idea, however there are a few things on the table that make me hesitant.
1. The couple is going through some emotional issues which bring up the question of there stability. (man wants a baby, the woman doesn't)
2. The man in the other couple is my husbands boss; Though a friend first and foremost.
3. my husband is fine with me playing with the woman but he doesn't want me to play with another man until we have our children. This is fine with me since I am more interested in the female on female play anyway.
4. My husband and I are trying for a baby.
So, I guess my question is although I am very interested and my husband seems to to be supportive, are these other factors reason enough to keep things as just friends and not move to the next level?
I want to make sure that everyone feels comfortable and respected, both in the bedroom and out of it. Any ideas?