Hy all i dont know if iam writting in the right place but here it goes . Iam 16 yer old teen and my girlfrend is 14 , in a couple of month's we planned to have sex for our first time . We both really talk about such topics and I always question her if that would feel bad or good for what so ever I would do.We both agreed to have our first sexual experience without using a condom:rolleyes: ( My Girlfrend is going on a pill ). But the real question would be could I get STD's or other disease if we havent ever had eny sexual contact with eny one. :confused:
This is absolutely the right place, very glad you asked before doing it.
The short answer is that yes, you can get all types of infections, diseases, etc.
This is because not all of these are trasmitted exclusively through sexual contact. So you could have contracted any number of infections or diseases through casual contact, hereditary means, a blood transfusion early in life - who knows.
Please don't take this as preaching, just a heartfelt opinion. There's no rush to have sex, hold off as long as you two can.
But if you do, by all means use protection - i.e. condoms. Your first time will be every bit as special, and you'll both feel much better knowing that you're MUCH, much safer from STDs, STIs, all kinds of goodies - even a lot safer from having your life turned upside down at your age by someone accidentally getting pregnant. Multi-layered defense... "the pill" + condoms.
And also be very cautious with "non-penetration" sexual activities, such as oral sex.
Please feel free to follow up with any comments/questions.
Justin, I absolutely agree with Dan and Jennifer. There are so many things that people can get from sex that they can also have contracted in a totally non-sexual way. Many times these kinds of things don't even show symptoms in the person who has it... And, as far as your girlfriend going on the pill... well, that is good. But, the pill has to be taken at exactly the same time every day to be considered effective (95-99% effective) and other medications she is on may affect the efficacy of the oral contraceptives. I, like D&J, am not trying to sound preachy... just giving you what I feel is the best advice. The multi-layered protection approach is the best, the condom, and the pill together are much more effective than either one alone. Anytime anyone is experiencing sex for the first time there is a wealth of new feelings and sensations that having a condom on, you won't care, because it will still feel so good. Good luck, and have fun ;)
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