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I have been in a relationship for the past 8 years .We met here in the states and she introduced me to her dad at first as her mother was not only in the states but are not together after she gave birth to her( pretty much she is the result of a one night stand to my opinion). Her mother has three kids in three different relation that failed and now she claims to have a boyfriend at 50 years of age. After i learned all this things, I didn't feel right to break up the relationship as that would have been very immature of me but at the same time there are some DNA you just don't want to get mix with as it's just disaster waiting to happen. Three years ago, the best thing ever happen to this relationship is that we have a daughter and about a year later the relationship is like a car going 200mph backwards. The problem is coming from the man behind the curtain( her mother). She is running the relationship and making everything impossible for me to even put a word in as everything already been discussed and regardless if i agree or not, their agenda follow through anyways. We are both young adults, i'm 28 and she's 29. We are both black but from different part of the world. She's jamaican and i'm haitian-american. I choose not to go anywhere with her as i feel as i'm not wanted and i'm just waisting my time. I work from 7:30AM until 9:00PM just to stay away from the house. When it comes to sex, I won't even mention that part of this relationship as she's always tired and I don't even bother thinking about romance as I might be a part time lover. Base on my experience, I believe love, relationship is over rated if this is how doing the right thing should feel. I have attempt to leave multiple times but for my daughter sake i changed my mind. I'm a cancer and she's a sagitarius. I really can't think of anything else, but can you guys tell me in what angle should i approach this situation because it's ashame to be living like this when i know for a fact there are thousands of people out there who would wish to have my help.
I have been in a relationship for the past 8 years .We met here in the states and she introduced me to her dad at first as her mother was not only in the states but are not together after she gave birth to her( pretty much she is the result of a one night stand to my opinion). Her mother has three kids in three different relation that failed and now she claims to have a boyfriend at 50 years of age. After i learned all this things, I didn't feel right to break up the relationship as that would have been very immature of me but at the same time there are some DNA you just don't want to get mix with as it's just disaster waiting to happen. Three years ago, the best thing ever happen to this relationship is that we have a daughter and about a year later the relationship is like a car going 200mph backwards. The problem is coming from the man behind the curtain( her mother). She is running the relationship and making everything impossible for me to even put a word in as everything already been discussed and regardless if i agree or not, their agenda follow through anyways. We are both young adults, i'm 28 and she's 29. We are both black but from different part of the world. She's jamaican and i'm haitian-american. I choose not to go anywhere with her as i feel as i'm not wanted and i'm just waisting my time. I work from 7:30AM until 9:00PM just to stay away from the house. When it comes to sex, I won't even mention that part of this relationship as she's always tired and I don't even bother thinking about romance as I might be a part time lover. Base on my experience, I believe love, relationship is over rated if this is how doing the right thing should feel. I have attempt to leave multiple times but for my daughter sake i changed my mind. I'm a cancer and she's a sagitarius. I really can't think of anything else, but can you guys tell me in what angle should i approach this situation because it's ashame to be living like this when i know for a fact there are thousands of people out there who would wish to have my help.
