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I have just separated from a 20 year marriage to my husband and did everything I could to keep it amicable. We talk daily like we always did but he is obviously having trouble moving on. It's only been 2 months since I moved out but the divorce has been happening in my head for 10 years. We had moments of greatness as a couple I went through a lot of changes (we met when I was 19, he was 20). We both did and grew apart.
He thinks I have been having an affair with someone who has also recently separated from his wife. NOT convenient. To make matters worse we now live in the same apartment complex and work together. We have been friends for 3 years now and I would like to date him. My husband would flip out over this and he is insecure and feels slighted enough already because of my leaving. I don't want to hurt him more and don't want him to think I've been having an affair but I also want to get on with my life. He constantly questions me about the "new" guy. I want to tell him the truth but don't think he needs to hear it. Fact is there is a like-mindedness i have with my friend that i never had with my husband and It's the kind of relationship i want. Do I even have to make my new life my husband's business? we don't have kids.
He thinks I have been having an affair with someone who has also recently separated from his wife. NOT convenient. To make matters worse we now live in the same apartment complex and work together. We have been friends for 3 years now and I would like to date him. My husband would flip out over this and he is insecure and feels slighted enough already because of my leaving. I don't want to hurt him more and don't want him to think I've been having an affair but I also want to get on with my life. He constantly questions me about the "new" guy. I want to tell him the truth but don't think he needs to hear it. Fact is there is a like-mindedness i have with my friend that i never had with my husband and It's the kind of relationship i want. Do I even have to make my new life my husband's business? we don't have kids.
