Is she SHY or UNINTERESTED? need your opinions

in Love and Relationships » Relationship Advice • 3 years ago

I'm 20 years old, not too bad looking. I'm in college and there's this girl in my class. I saw her outside of class one day and i went up to her to get a conversation going and introduce myself. When i was talking with her, i noticed that she was blushing a lot until she almost turned purple but i didnt say anything. I told her we should get together sometime but i didnt ask for her number or email or anything.

I see her in class the next day, and im pretty sure she saw me (at the back of the class) but she avoids sitting beside me and she sits in front by herself... so i move to go sit beside her. I ask her how her day is going and she answers my question no problem and also asks the same questions i ask her. Its like she is afraid to talk about anything. At the end of class, she doesnt even say bye to me, she just stands up and looks back at me and i look at her and we dont even smile at each other and she walks away.

I've never had experience with this before and i dont like talking to my friends about personal stuff... but i need a woman's (preferably) insight on whether this girl is shy and attracted to me or just plain old uninterested.

Thank you
2theleft =)

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alexstran..

Re: Is she SHY or UNINTERESTED? need your opinions

3 years ago

Sounds like she is shy and attracted. With that being said she will be a lot work to get her to open up.

Shy behavior is often confused as being aloof or even snobbish. If you decide to peruse her, don't get paranoid when she doesn't say bye or acts aloof. Take it as she likes you.

Next time you see her playfully ask her if she is shy. If she says 'yes' you could make fun of her a little bit to get her to open up.

As a side note, don't go to the girl have her come to you. You don't want to be perceived as chasing her. Next time she comes in say "come here" and when she gets over tell her to sit down.