Ask Dan & Jennifer

Originally posted by: Pvt Gi Jane
Hi All,

Would all you experienced people say, having sex either one on one at a swinging party or in a group, be fun using a condom???:confused:

I mean be honest the feeling is really not the same?

Like I said on one of my previous posts: People swinging do go for regular HIV
Tests and they do try to stay in certain groups, but: If one person to have sex
with a person infected a few days after his test and decide to keep silent about it:eek: What then???

Please tell me what you experienced people think about it:D

First ther is a new test for hiv.have the tests and require they be done the day before.We stay with a very small group[more into bdsm] and nobody strays.we are all friends and very consious of disease.weeks ago i had sex with these three men who all wore condoms,as my master expects when it comes to anal.i could not tell the difference.there are condoms that give both the natural feeling.as being a oral lover who loves to swallow,is why we never go to clubs.Cheating swingers is the most dangerous.we are group of friends with secure marriages and completely satisfied keeping it that way.I would love to suck off a team of baseball players,but until we could be 100% sure they were d/f,it's just a fantasy,although i would let them spank me.Be Careful

Originally posted by: Pvt Gi Jane
Would all you experienced people say, having sex either one on one at a swinging party or in a group, be fun using a condom? I mean be honest the feeling is really not the same?

No, the feeling is not the same, but it's obviously quite worth it to many of us or we wouldn't be doing it. Some of us even go as far as to swing without condoms.

Originally posted by: Pvt Gi Jane
People swinging do go for regular HIV tests and they do try to stay in certain groups, but if one person to have sex with a person infected a few days after his test and decide to keep silent about it, what then???

While this is a plausible scenario, our decision to swing comes down to how comfortable we are with the likelihood of this happening. Swinging, like many other things in life, entails risk, so everyone has to decide whether the risk is worth the reward. It obviously isn't for you, but it is for us.

I agree with Greg and Sheryl... it really depends on how well you know that couple, how much you trust them, and if it's worth it to you. It's really no different than a single person who has friends with benefits. It's just a personal decision.

It's an individual decision, but don't ignore the risks.

You can get (or get someone else) pregnant.
You can catch an STD
You get other infections

I'm not saying this to be a downer - just make an informed decision.

Our preference is always use a condom...

Here's a video we did on this recently.

Threesomes and Safe Sex - What Everyone Ought to Know