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Since the word "Dangerous" has entered the equation, I have to think there's more to the story here. Is someone's previous abuse a factor here? Obviously, if people are in danger, then it's gone beyond play.

Sadly there is a lot in the story, unfortinatly none of it has to do with past abuse. The strainge thing is I'm the only one who thinks it is dangerous. Normaly I'm a very kind nurturing person but as my friends have all pointed out I can be frightening. Mostly because I have times where my temper sudenly flairs without warning or cause and basicaly I give Vlad the empaler a run for his title, but also because i've a good skill at mentaly manipulating people. My boyfriend knows about my temper but he's never been at the brunt of a full attack. And he does not believe things will get as bad as I say they can. I can't convince him otherwise and there have been times where if I hadn't been so good at medicen I'd have had to take him to the hospital. and it's so darn unpredictable because i have so many moodswings which can change at the snap of a finger. I've tried to stop the whole thing but he knows how to break my will, which he is very good at doing.

I just don't know what to do anymore

Thank you for the additional information. This has gone beyond fun. You're going to need more help than I can give you through an internet forum. You need to see a mental-health professional with training in this area. Your anger has somehow gotten linked to sex. It's going to take someone with skill to figure all of this out.

Hey, you may not think it but you actualy did help. You just gave me the idea to take him to my psychologist maybe that will get him to see the reality of the danger.

Thank You so much.

I think you're making a really good decision.

Hun, this is so normal and common place.

Slow things down to what you are confortable with doing. remember you are now the dominant one. So you are in control.

Take thing at a pace that suits you, do not do everything all at once. You will have overload and will not be able to cope with it.

I'll be directing you to a good site ok?

Purchase a book called "Uniquely Rika" By MS Rika. availible on amazon, lulu I think and other good online bookstores.

There's a site called "How to Be a dominant diva" She has a book of the same title. Also there's a book called "Sex tips from a dominatrix" By Mistress Patricia Payne. There's also a book called "How to dominate you rman" By Kim Powers Powers. Last book I recommend is "The Sexually Dominant Woman: A Workbook for Nervous Beginners" by Lady green.

I hope i have helped you out enough?

Regards.

Tenderkiss.

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These will be more than enough to be getting on with.

Regards.

Tenderkiss.