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Well same girl as last time, however when i asked her about being more than friends she said she wouldnt say anything. Then she said she liked me as a friend, however, Im not sure if she was only saying that becuase she felt like it had to be a yes or a no.
The reason I didn't drop it right there, is because it seems like after we hungout with some people over the weekend, she is flirtier / friendlier again. She texted me out of the blue yesterday for the first time in ages about something random and seemed like she actually wanted to txt me. During this conversation last night i told her that i suspected one of her friends had a crush on me, she said she personally agreed. But, when I said I could not see it (her friend and I), she immediately said "You mean shes not your type? "Becuase I understand that" ,followed by "What are you looking for in a girl?"
So i told her what my "perfect girl" would be like, and then she told me what kind of things she liked and looked for in a guy (they were all things i have, although Im not going to judge my own looks) . Ironically it seemed almost identical to what i had said, but from an opposite gender's perspective. (duh) I pointed this out and she laughed and said she had noticed.
So we got on the topic of skiing later this year and what not (a common interest to both of us) and she gave the usual "yea but i suck haha" line, So i said Id be happy to help her get better etc. (flirty shit) The difference this time was that when i said she should come ski shopping with me (she said she needed new ski stuff) instead of saying something like "maybe" or "No its okay" she actually accepted my offer.
So at this point I am being patient, but is that what is right to do? Like i said, she hardly talks to other guys unless their her best friends (and usually not single) so im not worried about that in the least.
Thoughts?
Thanks for the tips in advance
The reason I didn't drop it right there, is because it seems like after we hungout with some people over the weekend, she is flirtier / friendlier again. She texted me out of the blue yesterday for the first time in ages about something random and seemed like she actually wanted to txt me. During this conversation last night i told her that i suspected one of her friends had a crush on me, she said she personally agreed. But, when I said I could not see it (her friend and I), she immediately said "You mean shes not your type? "Becuase I understand that" ,followed by "What are you looking for in a girl?"
So i told her what my "perfect girl" would be like, and then she told me what kind of things she liked and looked for in a guy (they were all things i have, although Im not going to judge my own looks) . Ironically it seemed almost identical to what i had said, but from an opposite gender's perspective. (duh) I pointed this out and she laughed and said she had noticed.
So we got on the topic of skiing later this year and what not (a common interest to both of us) and she gave the usual "yea but i suck haha" line, So i said Id be happy to help her get better etc. (flirty shit) The difference this time was that when i said she should come ski shopping with me (she said she needed new ski stuff) instead of saying something like "maybe" or "No its okay" she actually accepted my offer.
So at this point I am being patient, but is that what is right to do? Like i said, she hardly talks to other guys unless their her best friends (and usually not single) so im not worried about that in the least.
Thoughts?
Thanks for the tips in advance
