Lately, my boyfriend and I have struggled during sex. I admit responsibility to it being a lackluster engagement, but there are issues he claims as well. His dick is curved (much like a g-spot hitting vibrator), and that is great while initiating in missionary style or frontwards cow-girl positions. However, to spice up the sex, I need more than those two options. It feels boring not being able to change how we love each other. The shape of his member unfortunately makes it difficult to engage in other positions comfortably for both him and me.
Also, my boyfriend struggles to orgasm without the help of his own hand. I think this is due to years of masturbating and partners he had to fake with, but because of this, our sex can last forever. Great, right? However, I can sometimes orgasm more than 13 times by the time he even thinks of trying something to get him to orgasm, and by that time, my muscles and body are physically draining and overstimulated. I guess I'm just at a loss of how to change our sex life into being something more amazing. I'm still very young, and I am finding masturbating a more exciting prospect than making love to him.
And, also... I love doggie style type positions, and there is no way, besides anal that we can participate in this position. While I endorse and love anal sex, he prefers vaginal, putting that out of the question.
Please help!