Ask Dan & Jennifer

I understand how hard it can be to get over someone. It's normal to still have feelings for her, but the way you're handling it is unhealthy. Getting drunk every day is simply bad for you. Try to focus on other things. It'll get better every day if you try to be optimistic. The relationship is over. It's been over.

And just because a relationship is over does not mean you have to blame one person. if you ask me, both of you were wrong in that you cheated on each other. It's not singly anyone's fault. It takes two to break up.

Love can be terribly painful, but if you give yourself reassurance and time to heal, you will find someone else eventually. It's not always going to be like this.

sobriety should help a little, but here are a few things you should remember, the first being you two broke up for a reason and lots of times it's the right person just the wrong time, so the only thing you can really do about it is think it over once more than set her to the side and move forward don't blame anyone or if you do end up with her again it will come out eventually, take some time to yourself figure out what you want your future to be and go after it, for only you can change you and your future just like only she can only change herself and her future, and who know maybe the next time you two meet you'll reconnect or maybe you won't, only time will tell! but the one thing I do know from experience is women love men that are motivated and moving forward through life and that when it comes right down to it nobody will push you to succeed in life but you! So my advice to you would be Hold your head up high and push on forward if she is the one she'll return and if not maybe you'll find the one who is! But if your always looking back you'll miss out on the future and worst of all the wonders of today!
I've been through plenty of heartache and when the girl I loved more than life itself returned to me I wasn't where I needed to be in my life to hold her again and I lost her again! Hope that Helps!

hey to let you know you are not the only one who has been without a relationship for two years. i have had the same problem too. yes it is very hard to let go of the one you care about but, you ahve to realize that if she gets mad over you looking at a car then what is she going to do when another women comes up to you to talk. if that is how she acts then maybe it is a good thing that you all broke it off. and foir the cheating i have never cheatd on a girlfriend before so i not to sure what to say to that but i do know that when one person cheats on the other it doesnt make it right for the other to do the same it shows that you are stepping down to their level and you need to make yourself the better person. i hope this helps you out.