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In order to socialize, especially with MOTOS (members of the opposite
sex) you need to have a certain skill set. If this were not so, you
would not have a few men who can attract all the women they could
possibly want, and a great number more who have absolutely no success whatsoever in this area.
For those of us who are not naturally endowed with such skills, 'jby' assures
that that person will continue to fail. It is just as Albert Einstein
said; doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different
result is the definition of insanity. The only people for whom 'jby' is a successful tactic are the naturals--exactly the people who don't need the advice in the first
place. But for the rest of us, who weren't necessarily endowed with the optimal set of genetics, you have to acquire the skill set necessary to attract MOTOS. Otherwise, you will continue to get the same results you always have.
Accordingly, I am a firm believer in 'fake it until you make it',
which does not require outright deception, but it does require that
you step outside yourself and do things in a way that you haven't
before. It is scary as hell at first because you don't know what you
are doing and have no script nor instructions to follow. Especially
if you don't have any good role models to emulate, which was certainly
true in my case.
Regardless of what you are doing, you always want to present yourself in the best possible light. And if that isn't good enough, improve yourself until you start getting the results you want.
No one ever said it was going to be easy, but then again, nothing worthwhile ever is.
sex) you need to have a certain skill set. If this were not so, you
would not have a few men who can attract all the women they could
possibly want, and a great number more who have absolutely no success whatsoever in this area.
For those of us who are not naturally endowed with such skills, 'jby' assures
that that person will continue to fail. It is just as Albert Einstein
said; doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different
result is the definition of insanity. The only people for whom 'jby' is a successful tactic are the naturals--exactly the people who don't need the advice in the first
place. But for the rest of us, who weren't necessarily endowed with the optimal set of genetics, you have to acquire the skill set necessary to attract MOTOS. Otherwise, you will continue to get the same results you always have.
Accordingly, I am a firm believer in 'fake it until you make it',
which does not require outright deception, but it does require that
you step outside yourself and do things in a way that you haven't
before. It is scary as hell at first because you don't know what you
are doing and have no script nor instructions to follow. Especially
if you don't have any good role models to emulate, which was certainly
true in my case.
Regardless of what you are doing, you always want to present yourself in the best possible light. And if that isn't good enough, improve yourself until you start getting the results you want.
No one ever said it was going to be easy, but then again, nothing worthwhile ever is.
