:( Me and this girl yasmine have been through alot together but just as friends. For a few years now. We have had a few occasions were we have told each other we do have feelings for one another. But always during the times we had other relationships going on. But now she has a child but split with the father. She is also moving into her own flat and has offered me to move in with her. But im not sure i could sexualy satisfy her after the sort of relationships she has had and after giving birth.:( And at this point if i know i cont have her it will kill me but that the eason i havent takenn it a step further incase i ruin what we already have. Whats my next step?
OK, if you love her, then don't let previous experiences stop you. Dan and Jennifer have a good video on this, although there the focus is jealousy and anger, where I believe yours is more fear, but the same answer applies.
Most adults aren't virgins, so that means they've had sex with other people, I'm sure you have too. I don't know what you mean by, "the sort of relationships she has had," if this is a fetish thing she was in before, or multiple partners, or just other men that you fear were "better" than you. Let me tell you, everyone fucks differently. Sorry for the language, but that's the best way to put it. OK, now just because she's been with other guys doesn't mean they were better than you, they were different. If you're worried you don't know enough "tricks" then look around here, there are plenty of tips on how to have great sex. As far as sexually satisfying her after having a baby, yes, things get stretched out for childbirth, but they don't stay that way forever. And if you're still worried about sex, remember, there's more things that satisfy a woman sexually than just a penis. Don't be afraid to use fingers, your tongue, or sex toys. It seems men get anxious sometimes when introducing sex toys into the bedroom with their woman. Don't be, she's probably got one already, it's no biggie. And don't forget, foreplay is half the trick when it comes to women.... If you're willing to be in a relationship with a woman who has a kid, then my advice is do it. You both have feelings for each other, don't let that go to waste. The worst that can happen is you go for it and it doesn't work out. But if you don't try, you'd probably regret it and wonder "what if" for the rest of your life. I don't regret things I have done, I regret what I haven't done.
P.S. the tags kind of freaked me out at first before I read your post...lol
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