looking for an answer

in General and Off Topic Discussions » Introductions / Make New Friends • 3 years ago

couple weeks ago i received a PM from a man here asking my advise on how to get closer to a gurl he liked but didnt know what to do next.
I Pm him back with my best advise and he pm me back asking about me . we Pm for another couple times he sounded like a really nice man.
It was nothing dirty r ne thing just nice conversation which i enjoyed. ne way after i told him i waz 16 and a junior n high school, which i thought he had already seen on my profile page, he never pm me ne more.
i dont understand this since we never talked bout ne thing we shouldnt n we really seemed to have a good converstations and i might even had helped him.
Y doesnt he pm me ne more?
willow:mad:

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duckie_da..

Re: looking for an answer

3 years ago

Not to call him out, but it's possible that maybe he was looking for more than just friendly conversation at one point or another after getting to know each other.

Though, it's possible that he, as any older man would do, freaked out at finding out you were 16 because a lot of kids these days around that age have conversations with men that really were very clean and appropriate, turn around and make up lies of him saying dirty things.. so, maybe he was thinking it might happen. 'specially, online.

There's no telling his motives, the only way to truly find out is by asking him yourself.

willow_n_..

Re: looking for an answer

3 years ago

Tanks so much for taking the time to answer my question. I totally understand now. I could never do that to ne one expecially some one nice but i can see how he might think that i might. mom saz im way to sensitive on things n cant handle rejection very well. again tanks

best_advi..

It may be embarrasing

3 years ago

He may not hav seen ur profile before, and then he may feel embarresed that he was asking a little girl (to him u probably are) for advice.:( sorry

Beagle

your screen name...

3 years ago

Your screen name makes you sound older. I would freak out too if I was talking about romantic/sexual things w/ a sixteen year old girl. That could even get legally sticky in some states. You might want to consider a different screen name that makes that clear. I never look at someone's profile before I provide information.

alyssalyn..

Re: looking for an answer

1 year ago

I am also a 16 year old girl and I understand where you're coming from. As the previous posters said, he may have felt embarrassed asking such a young girl for sexual/relationship advice or maybe even worried since some people consider it wrong when an older guy and a young girl talk about sexual topics. Don't take it personally, he probably just freaked out. :)

nova_danj..

Re: looking for an answer

1 year ago

Originally posted by: AlyssaLynn
I am also a 16 year old girl and I understand where you're coming from. As the previous posters said, he may have felt embarrassed asking such a young girl for sexual/relationship advice or maybe even worried since some people consider it wrong when an older guy and a young girl talk about sexual topics. Don't take it personally, he probably just freaked out. :)

I don't normally post in dead threads that have been revived but I'm posting in this just to prove the point that this thread is about.

In this thread ('http://forum.askdanandjennifer.com/topic/i-get-wet-too-early-and-too-easily-is-this-a-problem') I replied to you with the thought that you were no younger than 18. For reasons involving the law, I posted the reply thinking that you were an adult female. And now I see here in this thread that you are only 16 years old and I was pretty surprised at that.

No offense was meant on this post. Like I said, I only posted to reinforce the point that was being made.