Ask Dan & Jennifer

I have a wonderfull man in my life. He treats me like a queen. He is attentive, romantic, funny ,caring.and has been in my life for 15 months. we do not go to bars and just enjoy each other. Weather it is wtching a movie at my place, going to dinner. Taking a drive it is all good. The trouble is. he has is divorce and has been for 8 yrs now(like myself) He is living with the ex wife. She is mentally unstable. She does not work and does things for his 3 business during the week. He has left her to go out of town with me and when he went on vacation for 15 days. I am not allowed to go to his house and hang or just a short visit. I have accepted the relationship and i do not worry about the two of them lving together or him sleeping with her. At times he comes to my house for hours and spends the night with me as well. I have clearly made it know that i want to live with him. I do not care where.. I would go anywhere for him at anytime. This man is positive about life and the day to day living. He is sometimes busy with work but he does make time for me that if for sure. I just sometimes wonder if i will ever be able to be in his home... or if she will ever move out. She is on medications and receives a income from the state. I told him that i did not care if he gave her the house or set her up in a place of her own. i know that i am loved , but after 16 months i want to know.. when this will happen that i live with him or i am allowed in his home.. i under stand that she is sick, but where will i fall in his life... please advise....

thanks