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It might be one of the most pleasurable things you ever try. There really should be only one taboo in our sex lives - and that would be not talking about what we enjoy and want to try! Everyone is different, and we have as many different tastes in sex as we do with food. Talking is always a good idea.

As for whether or not I've tried it, I have a collection of prostate massagers to prove how much I enjoy it!

Of course not. You and she are both adults. I'm not sure why you're concerned about it. Is there more to the story?

If you're in a loving, trusting relationship you should be able to ask each other for almost anything sexually. There is absolutely nothing wrong with anal play and stimulation of your prostate gland (it can be very enjoyable) but depending on how open and adventurous you and she are sexually, go slowly with her and give her the chance to get used to the idea. You might want to ask her if there's anything she's been wanting to try as well and be receptive to her ideas if there is. I'm all for trying new things to keep the excitement alive in your bedroom but both of you have to be agreeable to whatever new suggestions are brought to the table.

Originally posted by: Beagle
Of course not. You and she are both adults. I'm not sure why you're concerned about it. Is there more to the story?

You know, I do see this a lot. Our society is so twisted into knots about sex that we don't even realize how much there is to try. It's sad, but it's also cool that forums like this give people a chance to air it out and learn a little about what others are doing.

Once you sit down and have a discussion about the HEALTH BENEFITS of a healthy prostate, she may also understand the bonus of prostate massage for you.

A larger number of men every year are experiencing prostate problems and it is not humorous in the least. Men are conditioned that anything to do with our anal region is "gay" and inappropriate. Jokes are made about it all the time. Well, talk to a couple of men that survived prostate cancer and you will realize a lot of the phobias ingrained into society are wrong.

I personally have female friends that have husbands that no longer can obtain an erection due to prostate removal, one of the husbands refuses any contact with her and spends his time watching porn and angry at the world. I really suggest every man study the prostate and prostate health. You will never regret the knowledge. You will most likely freak out A LOT when you find out all the bad stuff that will happen should you have a serious prostate problem, including removal, accidental nicking of nerves, etc.

Best of Luck!

Originally posted by: Patrick in Michigan
Is it wrong for me to ask my wife to massage my prostate during oral sex. Has anyone ever had this done or is this taboo.

My wife always uses a vibrating anal toy(Spectragels Vibrating Anal Tool, Anal E-Z Bend, Anal T or Vibrating Anal Twister) to massage my prostate while she gives me a blowjob. Really intensifies my orgasms and enhances the amount of cum. Vibrating anal toys work better than fingers.

Sort of kinky and taboo, but it is fantastic. You will love it.

She also fucks me with a strap on(Bend Over Beginner Kit). Fantastic.

You ca PM me for more details.

Originally posted by: kinkysophie
My man loves it too! We're using this Dr. Joel Kaplan Prostate Massager that is angled perfectly to tickle his fancy! Try it, and hopefully you'll love it as much as he does!

Thanks for the info. We have a similar toy called anal E-Z Bend that I also like, but we will probably try the one you suggested. Do you also enjoy the pleasures of strap on sex also?