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I'm twenty years old and I have never had an orgasm from intercourse, I can only give myself one with light extreme vibration on the clit, and I've only gotten three from my partner through oral sex over the course of six months. I was a virgin until I got with my present partner.
Is it just that we are doing something wrong?
A friend told me using a vibrator too much can desensitize you to getting an orgasm other ways, is that true?
Could it be partially an issue that comes from the fact that I have panic disorder? I don't feel panicky during sex, just excited. But I do have a difficult time relaxing.
I also really want to orgasm, partly for me and partly for the sake of my partner who has looked immensely relieved the three times it happened orally.
Another note here, I have never faked an orgasm.
I think we have the oral down now. The first one was an accident pretty much early in our relationship, but the other two were in the last week so we've finally worked that out.
I also wanted to know what it means when he says, "I don't expect you to go down on me, but if you do, do it this way." Does this mean he wants me too? I worry about trying it because I never have before.
I'm sorry if I am asking way too many questions in one topic but there it is.
Is it just that we are doing something wrong?
A friend told me using a vibrator too much can desensitize you to getting an orgasm other ways, is that true?
Could it be partially an issue that comes from the fact that I have panic disorder? I don't feel panicky during sex, just excited. But I do have a difficult time relaxing.
I also really want to orgasm, partly for me and partly for the sake of my partner who has looked immensely relieved the three times it happened orally.
Another note here, I have never faked an orgasm.
I think we have the oral down now. The first one was an accident pretty much early in our relationship, but the other two were in the last week so we've finally worked that out.
I also wanted to know what it means when he says, "I don't expect you to go down on me, but if you do, do it this way." Does this mean he wants me too? I worry about trying it because I never have before.
I'm sorry if I am asking way too many questions in one topic but there it is.
