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First of all great forums, great advice, just thanks a lot for everything. I'm sure a lot of people appreciate it :]
Anyways to my problem.. currently 18 y/o sexually active with my girlfriend and have been for months. Originally we used condoms but slowly we moved into the pull out method because we both enjoyed the increase in pleasure (Stupid move, but we're only human), we both agree that it feels substantially better although I understand this isn't the case with everyone.
We've talked about abortions (please don't jump on abortions ) and have planned what we will do if ever there is an unwanted pregnancy. So I mean the system technically works...even if it is extremely selfish. I'm against abortions.
She is currently on her period and I am going to start using protection again (we've talked about it before, she didn't like the idea and neither did I really, but safety first). I know she will dislike the idea as we have a great sex-life (not just because of the pleasure but it certainly adds an intensity). I just don't want her to end up regretting anything and perhaps being hurt, and I don't want the responsibility of a child this early in life.
Question: How do I make the smooth transition from unprotected to protected sex when my girlfriend is against it?
p.s. I do not endorse the use of the pull out method to ANYONE, it's just stupid. I haven't had a problem "pulling out" in time but some do. It doesn't eliminate the risk of a pregnancy completely. (As I'm sure you know :P)
-Anthony
Anyways to my problem.. currently 18 y/o sexually active with my girlfriend and have been for months. Originally we used condoms but slowly we moved into the pull out method because we both enjoyed the increase in pleasure (Stupid move, but we're only human), we both agree that it feels substantially better although I understand this isn't the case with everyone.
We've talked about abortions (please don't jump on abortions ) and have planned what we will do if ever there is an unwanted pregnancy. So I mean the system technically works...even if it is extremely selfish. I'm against abortions.
She is currently on her period and I am going to start using protection again (we've talked about it before, she didn't like the idea and neither did I really, but safety first). I know she will dislike the idea as we have a great sex-life (not just because of the pleasure but it certainly adds an intensity). I just don't want her to end up regretting anything and perhaps being hurt, and I don't want the responsibility of a child this early in life.
Question: How do I make the smooth transition from unprotected to protected sex when my girlfriend is against it?
p.s. I do not endorse the use of the pull out method to ANYONE, it's just stupid. I haven't had a problem "pulling out" in time but some do. It doesn't eliminate the risk of a pregnancy completely. (As I'm sure you know :P)
-Anthony
