Ask Dan & Jennifer

Originally posted by: Basic204
too nice or they call me MR nice guy

That's the issue and pretty much anyone else reading your post will tell you that as well. As long as you continue being the "nice guy," you won't be able to get out of the friend zone with any of your female friends.

I completely agree with YourEternalRest, you can be nice but you have to push that boundary of friend ship. So that your nice buy you gotta show you want something out of it. I think in time you'll find some one you will really enjoy.

I would go about that boundary of making fun of them in little ways that wont be offensive. It's hard for me to explain but to me it works. It's just being flirty in a way, I guess you need to be more flirtatious.

But how to change who i am i have always been like this no matter how much people are mean to me it dose not brother me and i am still nice any their any girls who like nice guys any more ?

Just be flirtatious, are you being flirtatious at all? That might be your problem, if your not causing them to blush or feel unconquerable then I don't think your trying hard enough.

If you don't push the boundary your not going to get too far. Go ahead and push the boundary, it's ok as long as you don't get carried away with it.

Don't change who you are because acting like someone you're not is considered a turnoff. Being flirty is definitely a step in the right direction, as Xero already mentioned. If you're afraid to do it with the girl you like, try "practicing" with people you know you can't get with. I work in a restaurant where most people I work with are females. Most of them are either married or have a bf. I actually flirt with them a lot because I know I can and nothing will happen from it. I'll admit there have been some instances where I've gone a bit far with the "jokes" but they forget it after a short while and it's back to having fun again.

If you're not at the point of flirting yet, at least try to make them laugh. You have a sense of humor right? Laughter is a pretty good way to break the ice.

I will tr that any tips on how to pick up girls i never met like when i go to Manhattan or any place online i could meet girls ? or where i meet girls who are really in to tech or really like books ?