Ask Dan & Jennifer

1º) Never felt in Love for any Girl (I already tought that I could might be gay but it didn't worked for Guys either) and that's not normal, What the heck is wrong with me? (I feel like a rock in the matter of love)

2º) What's Love? How does it feel? How can I feel love?

3º) I had some chances(5) to have sex with girls they're really into(they didn't loved me,I think...) me but I didn't even cared and basicly backed off because I didn't felt anything for them. What's messing wtih my head is, I know that 99% of the guys that I know would have na*led them even without blinking ( they're attractive girls). The question from this is, Should I jump for the sex phase even not feeling anything?

4º) When I masturbate I don't really feel the orgasm, well I feel it but its not like what it used to be, I'm getting in repetition but, what the hell is wrong with me?

5º) The few girls that I tought that were interesting(attractive(i'm not talking about a model or something just a "normal" person),inteligent and interesting) I always end stucked in the Friendzone. Because I first need to meet them to know if they're what I except so when I ask for a date I always receive a "no" which I'm already so used too that doesn't bother me anymore(They're in total 4 times) (Which I wasn't in love but well I tought "Lets try!"). So should I approach every single girl that I know in a "agressive" way?

6º) What type of personality like a girl? Because I see that the "assholes"(i.e guys that treat the girls like whores(no i'm not a knight in a shinning armor or something like that)) getting their "hands" full of girls. Ok this one doesn't really bother me if they have 200 whores and I would had 1 decent girl I would be happy about it.

Sometimes I think that I'm too much Romantic.

I haven't felt attracted to girls at that age either. I knew I wasn't gay because I didn't feel any attraction towards men either. People have thought/asked me if I was gay because I never had a gf, been on a date, etc. You're not the only one who is going through this experience.

I can't give you an answer for this one. This is an answer you have to find for yourself. This is one of those questions that if you ask 100 people, you'll get 100 answers. The only person who knows what the "right answer" is yourself.

That depends on who you are as a person. But if you've had that many chances and you didn't even take one of them, I can only guess that you want to save it for that "special" person? Based on this question, I take it that you're a virgin?

What do you think about when you masturbate? The fact that you do masturbate leads me to believe that you do feel at least SOME sexual tension. You're not completely asexual though, that's for sure.

Are you somebody who is aggressive by nature? If the answer is no, then don't. Do not try to be or act like somebody you're not. You don't have to do that to be in a relationship. As for the girls who are in the "friend zone," if there's at least one that you like, then ask her out. If you're used to hearing the word no, then what do you have to lose?

The only personality that you need is the one that defines who you are. We all know the stories of the "assholes" and how they are able to get the girls. But very often, they are the type who only care about themselves, abuse the women they're with, and in extreme cases, even beat them. I doubt this is the kind of man you want to be.

Well, don't think too much. That will make your head hurt even more.

Originally posted by: MyselfandI

Well as I told on my inicial post, yes i'm a virgin and like most of the virgins if anyone ask I'm not ashamed to say it to no-one.

Originally posted by: MyselfandI

My post doesn't do much sense in this area I will reformulate it, I do actualy masturbate and well it WAS awesome but some time ago I feel the orgasm but its not even one quarter intense than it was now it's like "...Ok i camed..." there isn't any kind of pleasure. That's why I'm asking because I have no ideia what can be this.

Originally posted by: MyselfandI

As I told you I'm incapable of "liking"(In terms of Loving) someone, I can think that the person is interesting enough to give it a shot, It doesn't mean that I like the girl as love.

Originally posted by: MyselfandI

No, I don't mean bullys, by assholes i meant guys that really treat her like whores, for example, she needs anything from one of this type of guys but he doesn't even care but one hour after he's fuc*ing her, it makes me facepalm so many times.

At the bottom are some videos you should check out on the friend zone issue.

Your question was should you jump on the sex train and go at it. That's completely fine if that's what you want to do. As long as you can live with your self after then I would go right ahead. If you want to save your virginity for someone special then that is just as fine as well.

I would suggest to look at different porn, as in not the same video or picture every time. You could also try masturbating until your about to climax, stop for a second, then continue, stop, and keep doing that until you do climax. This lets it build and you could have a strong one. Just be careful not to hurt your self.