Ask Dan & Jennifer

Well, hello there, Nemo!
I can tell you something: Everyone's body is different. While some women can have mutiple, powerful orgasms in a short time, other's can't. As guys have big penises, others don't. As some women have big boobs, other women has small ones, Some people dislike oral, other dislike anal, and I can keep going for a looong time.... Bottom line is: Maybe you are a little harder to get to orgasm. There are several books to show techniques on how to orgasm for the ladies, go do a quick search on Amazon, and do a little research on them before buying it too. I would reccomend some, but sadly I can't recall the name of a book a friend of mine read. I'll look for it too.
However, learning how your body acts and techniques to change that is good. Maybe some positions or other sexual stuff makes your orgasm to come faster, or better, or longer, or all of the above!
Oh, and talk with your man too. He might be a little disappointed that he is not able to set you off, so let you know it is not about him, but about you, and that you need his help to figure this out. Talk, talk, talk!!!

I wish you good luck, and a happier sex life too!
-Jean.

I agree with Jean on this one. Everyone's body is different. You have to know what gets you to orgasm and then you can tell him what things you like and dislike. Some women have never even had an orgasm! I'm gonna throw a couple D&J resources at you. Some tips for him on how to get you to orgasm, some information for you, and some general intimacy and orgasm info. Then here's a couple videos which may be helpful for you.

Here's one on allowing yourself to have an orgasm.


and...
Why is it so difficult to orgasm with oral sex?


I hope these Dan and Jennifer resources help you.

K. in Cleveland, you rock. Enough said :)

Agreed!

K. YOU ROCK!!! :cool::cool::cool:

Thank u soo much guys for the info
i love your web alot
Keep up guyes

There's nothing wrong with using your fingers during sex to have an orgasm...if it feels good, why not!

For penetrative sex, you could try:

High angle doggy style

Instead of thrusting from behind, the man positions himself so that his hips are above his partner's hips (instead of being directly behind). He'll look like he's leaning forward..almost parallel to the ground. He can place his hands on the bed for support. This position works well because the penis is angled downwards so that it hits the gspot (instead of going towards the uterus).