Ask Dan & Jennifer

Since you interested in getting involved in the swinging life. Why not have your wife or you supply the condoms that she is not allergic to. That way she can have all the adventure she want, with out reaction to the condoms

Best of luck

Latex allergies aren't that uncommon, but a lambskin allergy would be very rare. An allergy to both would be extremely rare. Is it possible that she is actually allergic to a lube, packing agent, or spermicide that is used in both. Believe it or not, talc or cornstarch are common packing agents, used to prevent fusing of the condom. Comparing the "ingredients" could reveal a common denominator.

A second possibility is that she doesn't really want to swing, and doesn't want to tell you that. You need to be open to all the possibilities.

If I've missed the boat on both of the above hypotheses, then a polyurethane condom might be in order. Female condoms are commonly made of that substance. I suspect one of the two above hypotheses is the problem, however.

First...I definitely say that you have to come up with a safe alternative that will help protect both of you against STD's. Safe sex should be a must for both of you. Second, it does seem unlikely that should would be allergic to both types of condoms. I would actually suggest that she talk to her gynecologist and see what he or she suggests. There are bound to be a few options out there and knowing what they are can be a great help.

Of course, Beagle could be right...in which case talking it all through is a must.

Durex Avanti Bare Condoms are very very good and pretty inexpensive and LifeStyles SKYN Condoms are essentially the same thing....you can google them and find a dealer who carries them or order them online

also although your wife is allergic to lambskins im hoping they were never a viable option at all.....they only protect from pregnancy which wouldnt matter to your wife anyhow....they offer absolutely no protection from disease.my husband and i attended a swingers party last year and there was a huge bowl of lamb condoms at the door....we informed the host why we were leaving and then made a fast exit.